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2011-05-16T07:39:00.001-07:00

The best self help books ever written

2011-01-23T04:35:00.000-08:00

Best self improvment books
Thousands of self-help and personal success books have been written. Each has offered a "secret" to personal power, fulfilment and well-being. But which are the all-time classics? Which ones really can change your life? Ranging from cutting-edge academic psychology to the wisdom of ancient philosophy and religion, and to the proven techniques of business and motivational gurus, 50 Self-Help Classics guides you to the proven titles in the field, compiling hundred of life-changing ideas into one book.

Control stress stop worrying and feel good now review

2011-01-22T09:40:00.000-08:00

Control stress by paul mckenna
Would you like to be able to relax and keep your edge?
Would you like to feel in control of your life?
Would you like to take the pressure off and feel good?
Then this amazing new book and hypnosis CD is for you!
Based on over twenty years of research, this book contains cutting edge psychological techniques that will automatically create feelings of calm alertness for you to access whenever you choose. You will learn how to transform your life from a place of peace, freedom from worry and inner strength.
The book also comes with a hypnosis CD that will help you to re-programme your mind to control stress, build up your inner strength and bring more joy, power and happiness to everything you do. The book and CD work together as a complete breakthrough system - the totally natural way to improve your overall quality of life!

Paul Mckenna I Can Make You Happy

2011-01-06T09:45:00.000-08:00

Exhausted and fed up as the New Year begins? In a major new series for the Mail, PAUL McKENNA explains how – using simple techniques – you can banish the blues... for good

In his new book I Can Make You Happy, international best-selling author PAUL McKENNA — whose techniques have helped millions to change their lives for the better — reveals his unique formula for making you feel good.

Click on this link>> for part one of his exclusive series, he shows you how everyone can be happier.

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2011-01-05T06:29:00.000-08:00

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2011-01-05T06:14:00.000-08:00

Introvert Personality

2010-12-13T08:20:00.000-08:00

Do you hover on the fringes of parties? Get tongue-tied in work meetings? Struggle to make small talk?
Despite what other people might think, you’re probably not anti-social or unimaginative. It’s likely you’re an introvert — but in society’s eyes, that’s much worse.
Thanks to a tsunami of self-help books and so-called ‘confidence gurus’ we’ve been conditioned to admire and emulate the extroverts who dominate the party and rule the roost at the office.

Be proud not being loud

J.K. Rowling says she's one. So too is Gwyneth Paltrow.

Click on this link to find out why experts say it's introverts who are quietly triumphing at work and at home

how to have a happy marriage

2010-12-10T10:07:00.000-08:00

American scientists believe they've found a mathematical formula for the perfect marriage. Scientists at the "Love Lab" or the Relationship Research Institute in Seattle, Washington claim their predictions have 94% accuracy.
The formula was developed using data collected from a mountain of videotaped conversations between couples. Physiological data, such as pulse rates, also was collected and analysed.

Click here to read more : What is your formula for lasting love? How do you keep the romance alive?

Self Confidence Tips

2010-12-09T09:59:00.000-08:00

The new year is a time when we look forward to the year ahead, but also tend to examine last year's failures and successes. Everybody suffers from low self esteem at some point in their lives, but the feeling that we may have 'failed' at something over the past year can make us feel even less confident.
Experts believe that women are more prone to a lack of self confidence than men. Approximately eight out of 10 women are thought to suffer from a lack of self confidence, compared to just five in 10 men. 'This is because women have to ward off more attacks on their self esteem on a daily basis,' says Dr Roy Bailey, a psychotherapist with his own practice in Buckingham.

Click on this link for the full article: how to boost your self confidence in 7 days

Anger Management Techniques

2010-12-02T03:23:00.000-08:00

Feeling angry? How a spoonfull of sugar sweetens your mood.
The next time you are nearing the end of your tether, consider some time out with a chocolate bar.

High sugar levels can help control aggression and prevent loss of temper, researchers have found.
Their study compared the behaviour of sugar-starved volunteers with those who had been given a sweet drink, and concluded the latter were less inclined to snap.

Click here for the full story of how sugar glucose is thought to stem aggressive behaviour by providing more self-control

How To Boost Memory

2010-11-29T07:29:00.000-08:00

A cup of coffee is what millions of us rely on to kick-start the day.
But new research shows that morning pick-me-up has a much more potent effect on the brain if it is taken with sugar.
Scientists at the University of Barcelona in Spain found taking caffeine and sugar at the same time boosted the brain’s performance more than taking them on their own.
Researchers now believe each one boosts the effect of the other on brain functions such as attention span and working memory.

Click here for the memory findings from brain scans carried out on 40 volunteers who were tested after they had coffee with sugar, coffee without sugar, sugar on its own or just plain water.

Boost Self Esteem

2010-11-28T05:56:00.000-08:00

The Key To Happiness? Self Esteem
It is often said that money can't buy happiness, although there are plenty of hard-up people who find it difficult to believe.
Now psychologists claim to have the proof. A study has found that being rich and beautiful has little to do with over-all contentment.
Instead, it concluded that we are happiest when we feel in charge of our own lives;
Click here to read the full article Self Eseem The Key To Happiness

How To Be Happy

2010-11-25T02:43:00.000-08:00

Social scientists say money, possessions, power or fame don't actually make us happy - although sufficient funds can obviously ease one's life.

Simple pleasures involving loving and feeling loved - and often nature - scored the most mentions: "walking with my dog and my boyfriend; seeing my mum's smile when I come home; seeing my daughter dance; finding out my best friend is pregnant".

Last autumn, a team of experts came together to create the Happiness Manifesto, which was trialled in the Making Slough Happy series on BBC TV.

Click here for their top tips on How To Be Happy

How to... Our guide to boosting your self confidence - fast!

2010-11-21T10:24:00.000-08:00

Focus on your personal confidence goals and write them down in the present tense, as if they're something you've already achieved (eg. 'I am positive about life').
Studies show that writing something down makes you more committed to it: pick a friend you trust and share your goals with them - you will increase your chance of achieving them by 33 per cent.

Click here to read more tips on boosting your self confidence and being positive

Psychic Ability - Can Humans See Into The Future ?

2010-11-18T03:51:00.000-08:00

In a recent experiment, students were shown a list of words to memorise. Later they were asked to recall as many as they could and finally they were given a random selection of the words to type out.
They were better at remembering some words than others. These tended to be the words they would later be asked to type, suggesting a future event had affected their ability to remember.

Click here for the full do humas have psychic ability test results story

The Book of Luck Review - Brilliant Ideas for Creating Your Own Success and Making Life Go Your Way

2010-09-25T07:23:00.000-07:00

Review

"...the authors reveal the seven personality traits that can bring you luck..." (Mail on Sunday – You magazine, 14^th November 2004) "...the two writers clearly explain how to turn a situation to your advantage..." (easyJet Magazine, February 2005)
"...full of practical tips...an enjoyable read and a useful reminder to be positive, take advantage of opportunities and accept responsibility for your actions." (Edge, September 2005)

"...the authors reveal the seven personality traits that can bring you luck..." (Mail on Sunday – You magazine, 14^th November 2004)
"...the two writers clearly explain how to turn a situation to your advantage..." (easyJet Magazine, February 2005)
"...an enjoyable read and a useful reminder to be positive, take advantage of opportunities and accept responsibility for your actions." (Edge, September 2005)

Product Description

Are some people just born lucky? The answer is no, people control their own fortunes. The Book of Luck will show you that there is a way to structure your luck and to bring success into your life and into your control. It will show you how to be lucky, always, demonstrating what has gone wrong in the past and outlining what you need to know for the future. Summers and Watson use extensive research and draw on their personal experiences both professionally and personally, to bring you a book crammed full of practical tips on how to turn the tide of your luck. This book will appeal to people who want to move up in life, people who have been made redundant, people who have plateaued in their careers and people who are ambitious for the next step – or simply people who want to make more of themselves in a business or personal context. The Book of Luck shows you how to:

choose your own luck
use social situations to increase your potential for luck
use your own personal strengths to increase your luck
choose how you respond to situations and maximise your luck
train your mind to expect long term success
develop a good luck mindset.

From the Inside Flap

Master The Book of Luck′s seven principles and you will find yourself being lucky, always. 1. CONTROL–ABILITY
Control–Ability is about choosing and flexing your response to events and situations that arise, no matter how difficult they may be.
Result? Less blaming the unkind hand of fate and more lucky breaks.
2. STICK–ABILITY
Stick–Ability is about perseverance, tenacity and following things through – even when the odds are against you. It is about finishing off what you start.
Result? Achieving goals no one else thought possible.
3. RISK–ABILITY
Risk–Ability is about having the confidence to take a chance rather than plumping for the safe bet. It means having an open mind and a willingness to think differently.
Result? More lucky opportunities will come your way.
4. SENSE–ABILITY
Sense–Ability means using all your senses and feelings to heighten your awareness of lucky opportunities. It includes making the most of gut feeling and intuition.
Result? Having the confidence to rely on your inner voice.
5. SOCIA–ABILITY
Socia–Ability is the knack of relating easily to other people in a variety of contexts.
Result? More lucky coincidences.
6. PERCEPT–ABILITY
Percept–Ability is all about how you look at life, events, yourself and others. Is your attitude to life optimistic? Do you shrug off (small) worries and concerns? If you do, this is true percept–ability!
Result? The ability to turn bad luck into good.
7. PERSON–ABILITY
Person–Ability is knowing yourself well enough to recognise what works well for you and what can work against you.
Result? Being able to harness all your natural luck skills.

From the Back Cover

Some people are just born lucky. Right? Wrong. You have to create your own luck. The good news is, there are proven ways to become a luckier person and get the success you want in your life. In The Book of Luck, Heather Summers and Anne Watson reveal how to be lucky, always. They explain what has been missing for you in the past and outline what you need to know for the future. The Book of Luck is a must–read for those who want to move up in the world. It is crammed full of practical tips on how to turn the tide of your luck.
You will learn how to:
· CHOOSE YOUR OWN LUCK
· TRANSFORM NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES
· WAKE UP TO THE POTENTIAL OF COINCIDENCE
· ASSESS YOUR OPENNESS TO LUCK AND YOUR ABILITY TO BENEFIT FROM IT
· USE YOUR OWN PERSONAL STRENGTHS TO INCREASE YOUR LUCK
· TRUST YOUR INTUITION AND INCREASE THE TIMES YOU GET IT RIGHT
· DEVELOP A GOOD LUCK MINDSET

The Book of Luck includes a Luck Questionnaire that will enable you to check how lucky you already are – and to re–check your progress as your luck quotient increases.

About the Author

Heather Summers is an experienced senior executive who now runs her own successful human resources and management consultancy business. As well as strategic consultancy she specialises in executive coaching, personal growth coaching and training. Heather believes we all have much more potential than we give ourselves credit for. All the training that she is involved in, including the Luck Workshops she runs with Anne Watson, help people find and fulfil that potential. Heather holds an MBA, has an MA in English Literature and French, is qualified in Psychometrics and is a Master Practitioner of NLP. She is married with 2 children and lives in Harrogate.

Anne Watson runs an executive search business that focuses on finding high achieving executives for businesses, and works with teams to ensure that they achieve their potential. In 1998 she sold a successful business, gaining the freedom to work in those areas that she is most passionate about. This includes running Luck Workshops with Heather Summers and challenging participants to take charge of their own destiny and outperform their own expectations. She has an MA Hons in Hispanic Languages, speaks four other languages including Urdu, is a qualified psychometrician and is a Master Practitioner in NLP. She is married with 2 children and divides her time between London and Harrogate.

Secret of life

2010-09-13T06:43:00.000-07:00

There are so many self-improvement products out there on the market, but none I’ve ever come across have made the bold promise that Chris D’Cruz of Universal Life Secrets has made. He promises to reveal to you the secrets of life and the universe, which in turn would give you “god-like” powers that will allow you to create your own destiny as you see fit.
The first time someone told me of the site’s outrageous claim, I laughed.
And then I visited UniversalLifeSecrets.com to check it out for myself. What I found on the site was indeed the most outrageous claim I have ever read in all my time online. Surely you’d have to think that if someone promises not just the world, but the secrets of the entire universe and life in general, the claims may be a tad absurd.
Just for the sake of everyone who might not have checked out the site yet, basically Chris D’Cruz promises that in 30 short days, you’ll be able to accomplish practically anything you set your mind to, persuade anyone to do your bidding, attract anyone into your bed and give them (and yourself) the most mind-blowing sexual experience all night long.
And apparently, that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
According to the site, some of the secrets he’ll reveal are “Irresistible Hypnotic Influence, Innate Psychic Ability, Supernatural Healing, Indomitable Sexual Prowess, The Cosmic Omnipotent Knowledge Of Life And The Universe”.
I don’t know what kept me on the site, but I read what this Chris D’Cruz had to say about his secrets. And the more I read, the more I was intrigued by the guy’s promises of self empowerment and sexual confidence/prowess. Like I said, I’ve never seen any claim as bold as this guy’s.

By the time I finished reading everything he had to say, I wanted to know more. I was really curious as to why he seemed so confident that these secrets would change anyone’s life in 30 days. I figured if these “secrets” turned out to be hogwash I would just use the 60 Day Money Back Guarantee and get a refund.
And you know what?
Turns out these secrets aren’t hogwash at all.
What Chris D’Cruz has done is live up to his promise of the world (or universe) and provide a comprehensive collection of the best material on self empowerment and sexual confidence/prowess that can never be found anywhere else. The secrets revealed are impressive, with easy implementation and integration into one’s daily life, and techniques rarely seen in any self help books I’ve read.
I’ve applied some of these techniques and surprisingly they work; the empowerment secrets have instilled a new confidence that I never thought existed in me. In turn, this newfound confidence translates to greater chances of me actually “scoring” whenever I’m out and about in the clubs and pubs.
So is Universal Life Secrets worth looking at?
From my own personal experience, I’d have to say yes. In a rare show of confidence, Chris D’Cruz actually delivers on his promises of the world, and if you take a chance on Universal Life Secrets, you’ll see that you truly will have the world in the palm of your hand.

=> http://www. universallifesecrets.com

Click: The Magic of Instant Connections Review

2010-08-31T03:08:00.000-07:00

Product Description

In a book that combines psychology and sociology with an insightful understanding of human interactions, Ori and Rom Brafman have written a compelling narrative that helps us to understand the magic behind those moments when we form an incredible connection with other people, or which cause us to become fully engaged in whatever we are doing. In a page-turning narrative in the fashion of their previous book, "Sway", the co-authors explore those peak moments in our lives when people or hobbies or activities fully engage our attention - when they 'click' with us. Drawing from recent research in psychology and sociology, and told through the same kinds of engaging stories that made "Sway" a "New York Times" bestseller, "Click" takes us on a roller coaster journey of discovery into those moments in our lives when we are 'in the zone' - when the rest of the world drops away and everything seems to fall into place.

About the Author

Ori Brafman is an organisational business consultant, and the co-author of the New York Times bestseller Sway and the critically acclaimed book The Starfish and the Spider. He lectures internationally in front of Fortune 500, government and military audiences. He holds an MBA from Stanford Graduate School of Business. Rom Brafman is a psychologist with a private practice in Palo Alto, California and the co-author of Sway. He has won awards for excellence in teaching and promoting positive human growth. They both live in the San Francisco Bay Area.

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Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking

2010-08-31T03:02:00.001-07:00

For Blink, Malcolm Gladwell, author of the bestselling The Tipping Point explores the extraordinarily perceptive and deceptive power of the sub-conscious mind. Gladwell’s major claim is that decisions made very quickly can be every bit as good as a decision made cautiously and deliberately. What we are actually doing is what Gladwell calls ‘thin-slicing’. When we leap to a decision or have a hunch our unconscious is sifting through the situation in front of us looking for a pattern, throwing out the irrelevant information and zeroing in on what really matters. Our unconscious mind is so good at this that it often delivers a better answer than more deliberate and protracted ways of thinking. Much of this is utterly mysterious but some of the most astonishing and useful examples of thin-slicing can be learned.

Gladwell hopes to convince us that our snap judgements and first impressions can be educated and controlled so instead of merely praising the mysterious process of instinct and intuition he is interested in those moments when our instincts betray us, the situations where our powers of rapid cognition can go awry, where we fail to read the signs. Most disturbing of all is the degree to which culturally determined preconceptions and prejudices control us. Without reducing matters to racism and sexism Gladwell shows us that there are facts about people’s appearance—their size or shape or color or sex—that can trigger a very similar set of powerful associations which explains why utter mediocrities (such as U.S. President Warren Harding) can sometimes end up in positions of enormous responsibility; or why tall people earn substantially more than their shorter colleagues; or why car salesmen unconsciously charge prices according to race and gender.

Gladwell’s conversational prose style is concise, informative, accessible and entertaining. The stories, scientific findings and psychological tests are consistently surprising whether he is dealing with speed-dating, record promotions, police shoot-outs, the human face, or the reasons doctors get sued. --Larry Brown END --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Product Description

Intuition is not some magical property that arises unbidden from the depths of our mind. It is a product of long hours and intelligent design, of meaningful work environments and particular rules and principles. This book shows us how we can hone our instinctive ability to know in an instant, helping us to bring out the best in our thinking and become better decision-makers in our homes, offices and in everyday life. Just as he did with his revolutionary theory of the tipping point, Gladwell reveals how the power of ‘blink’ could fundamentally transform our relationships, the way we consume, create and communicate, how we run our businesses and even our societies.You’ll never think about thinking in the same way again.
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Learn how to instantly detect any lie by listening to what a person says and the way that they speak

2010-08-31T01:30:00.000-07:00

Have you ever been having a conversation with someone, say, in the office, at home or out-and-about and doubted the truthfulness of something they’ve said? If you’re like most people, you no doubt have. It’s a frustrating position to be in. Even though you might suspect one or more of their statements to be false, you have no proof and can’t really risk accusing them for fear of being wrong, upsetting them and making a really bad impression. But what about if you aren’t with them face-to-face and talking on the phone instead or even listening to a message they’ve left you on your answering machine? Your job, of accurately judging whether or not what they’re saying is the truth or a lie is made even harder. You can’t look at their eyes, view their body language or use any other visual clue to help you decide on whether or not they’re trustworthy. So what CAN you do? Well, you can use natural lie detection techniques to get a good grasp on what they’re saying and, most importantly, whether it’s been made-up, twisted or is the entire truth. Let’s look at 4 ways in which people alter or change the way they speak or the words they use when they lie to you. Listen out for each one whenever you want to tell if someone is lying to you, either over the phone or face-to-face.

Sign #1: NEGATIVITY. Liars know that when they try to deceive someone they’re breaking an unspoken moral and social code – lying, to any normal, decent person – is plain wrong 99% of the time. Because what they’re saying is negative, they themselves feel a sense of negativity and cynicism, which leaks out in the words they choose to use. For example, a liar might say: ““I wasn’t there when the fire started,” instead of, “I was at home when the fire broke out.” Or “I never tell lies,” instead of, “I always tell the truth.”

Sign #2: SELF-REFERENCING. When trying to deceive others, people frequently want to psychologically distance themselves from the lie or lies they’re telling. They often do this by decreasing the amount of times they use self-referencing. For example, they might say: “That car was in the driveway. God knows how it could cause an accident at the same time.” An honest person is much more likely to not worry about referencing themselves in their statement, and might instead say: “My car was parked in my driveway. I don’t know how it could possibly have been on the road and caused an accident at the same time.”

Sign #3: VERBAL DISCLAIMERS. There’s a type of verbal deceit signal that many liars use that actually occurs before they tell you a lie, rather than during or after. They are called verbal disclaimers. They consist of sentences that precede a lie, which ‘prep’ the person who’s about to be deceived in an attempt to lessen the chance of them suspecting dishonesty or becoming suspicious of the liar’s claims. For example, saying things like: “I know you probably won’t believe this…” And “I can assure you…”

Sign #4: SPEECH SPEED. Because of the complicated mental task of constructing a lie and the equally tricky task of expressing it in words convincingly, liars often unknowingly slow down their speech speed to help their brains cope. As well as slowing down the speed at which they talk to give themselves extra time to think up what they’re going to next, liars also do it because they know that speaking more slowly gives their statements more weight. It also allows the person or people listening to take in everything the liar’s saying, which decreases the chances of them asking further questions, thereby lessening the chance of the liar being caught out.

There you have it: 4 verbal signs you can spot to ascertain whether or not someone is lying to you. The great thing about knowing these 4 signs, and the dozens of other signs and pieces of info we haven’t covered here, is that 99.999% of people HAVE NEVER HEARD OF THEM and cannot therefore try to avoid exhibiting them to keep up their con.

Simon Cruise is the expert author of Detect Deceit, a revolutionary guide that details how anyone can learn to become a master of lie detection, with the ability to analyze the things people say and do and instantly judge whether or not they can be trusted.Find out more at: http://www.detectdeceit.com

How To Achieve All Your Desires

2010-08-27T06:54:00.000-07:00

The first step in making changes in your life is always the
hardest! Knowing where to start or ‘how’ to start is often
one of the toughest challenges we face…

I have a great video for you to watch that will help you get
started with any changes that you want to make in your
life.

You can watch it f’ree right now by going here:

>> Real Mind Power

You don't have to *do* anything to watch it ...just go
here and it'll start playing:

=> Real Mind Power

It only goes for a few minutes but it's very powerful
because it explains how to start taking action.

So take a couple of minutes for yourself today to watch
this video and then take some action on your journey
towards achieving all of your life's desires and goals...

~> Real Mind Power

Warmly,

Paul
Change your life Today…

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How to Tell If Someone’s Lying Just From Looking At Their Hands…

2010-08-20T09:04:00.000-07:00

It’s a fact: other people’s lies make our lives more difficult. They distort and twist the truth, con us into believing things never happened, or took place when they shouldn’t have. There are literally thousands and thousands of ways people’s untruths and falsehoods taint and make living our daily lives more of an effort than it really should be.

So what can we do about it?

How can we put a stop to lies the second we hear them and reveal the real truth, the actual facts, the exact situation?

The answer is natural lie detection – techniques, strategies and knowledge that give a person the rare and invaluable ability to separate the real from the fake and always know what to believe and what to question.

So, what does it consist of? Well, natural lie detection uses no machines, test papers, no video or audio recordings. It is, as the name suggests, a science based on human perception and skill.

It has 3 main components. They are the interpretation and analysis of: body language, psychology, and verbal communication. By having a deep and expert knowledge of all three, you can become capable of spotting 99 out of 100 lies, whether they’re spoken over the phone, in person or even over the internet or via text message. Although learning these special techniques isn’t difficult when you have the time and proper reading material, it does require more space to explain than this short article allows. However, that doesn’t mean we can’t go over one way many liars give themselves away. This collection of principles falls under the body language category of natural lie detection and focuses solely on how a dishonest person uses, or avoids using, their hands when they’re being deceitful. There are 3 main hand-related signals of deceptiveness.

Signal #1: HAND GESTURE FREQUENCY. People use their hands to visually illustrate and emphasise their statements – it’s a way of painting an abstract picture in the air to better help the person or people they’re talking to understand the concepts being covered. When someone lies, however, their mind works differently to how it normally operates. Their thought process is dominated by the act of being dishonest convincingly and they therefore tend to change how they use their hands. The first change you should look for is in how often they gesticulate with their hands while talking. The majority of people, when they lie, lessen the amount of movements they make with their hands because they subconsciously want to restrict the volume of information being given to the person they’re lying to – out of fear of saying too much, either verbally or physically, and getting caught out or questioned. More proficient liars, or people who have rehearsed or planned a lie before telling it, actually tend to increase the frequency of their hand gestures. They’ll slice the air more with the blade of their hand or point their finger and clench their fists more frequently to illustrate and back-up what they’re saying. So, in short, look for a marked difference between the amount of hand gesticulations a person uses when in normal, day-to-day, obviously truthful conversation and when you suspect they may be lying to you or have a good reason to twist or otherwise alter the truth.

Signal #2: HAND-TO-FACE ACTIONS. The second signal you should look out for is an increase in the number of hand-to-face actions a person makes when you think they could be lying. The main reason they touch their faces more often when lying than when telling the truth is because of the internal social pressure they’re feeling, which leaks out in the form of hand-to-face actions. Look for moments when the person momentarily covers their mouth with their hand or fingers. This is a subconscious attempt to stifle themselves and physically block the lie from leaving their lips – they do this to futilely try to block their falsehood from reaching you and thereby decrease the chance of getting caught and lessen their feeling of guilt. However, many people are on some level aware of how mouth covers may be interpreted (as a sign that they’re lying) so instead try to camouflage the action by instead lightly touching their nose (which indirectly covers their mouth with their hand). Another reason many liars touch their noses is because of the increased blood-flow that occurs in its deep tissues, which creates an almost imperceptible tingle that, although not consciously felt and reacted to, causes the liar to unwittingly touch their nose for a moment. So, always keep an eye out for increased hand-to-face actions, especially those that cover a person’s mouth in some way or another.

Signal #3: THE HAND SHRUG. When people don’t know the answer to something or want to convey the messages: “I’m not sure,” or “I don’t care,” they often lift and quickly drop their shoulders in a shrugging motion. A variation of shoulder shrugging is the hand shrug: a quick lifting and dropping of one or both upturned hands. Like shrugging with the shoulders, it’s a way of expressing a type of diminished responsibility in regards to an issue or topic – and that’s why liars tend to overuse the hand shrug while being dishonest. Instead of using it only to accompany words that express a feeling of uncertainty or ambivalence – the way people do when being honest – liars use the hand shrug alongside verbal statements that don’t relate to “not knowing” or “not caring.” They do this subconsciously to distance themselves from the lie they’re telling.

Look for these 3 signs of potential dishonesty whenever you suspect someone might be lying and you’ll be a step closer to becoming a true master of deceit detection – a human lie detector.

Unlock the secret success formula contained within "Think and Grow Rich"...

2010-08-20T08:36:00.000-07:00

I'm going to be extremely honest with you here...

There are only a few programs that I have come

across that seem to really nail effortless success.

I am not talking about teaching it. I am talking

about creating raving fans with life changing results.

Dr. Anthony's "The Secret of Deliberate Creation" is

one of those rare programs.

Here's the truth...

I know how valuable Dr. Anthony's program is, but I

also know the economy is tough and that I owe it to

you to do everything I can so you can start using this

life changing program now without it costing you an

arm and a leg...

So I picked up the phone and called his assistant.

I asked her if Dr. Anthony could do something special

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And I couldn't believe what happened...

Not only did Dr. Anthony agree to give you access to

a special download version of his 'The Secret of Deliberate

Creation' program, but he's giving you an incredible

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Here's the best part--

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Secrets of the Amazing Kreskin: The World's Foremost Mentalist Reveals How You Can Expand Your Powers

2010-08-20T06:55:00.001-07:00

Synopsis

Reveals how readers can use their own latent mental powers to accomplish effects that resemble telepathy, clairvoyance, and hypnosis--through completely natural means.

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Developing Will Power and Self Discipline

2010-08-16T06:43:00.000-07:00

by Remez Sasson

Most people admire and respect strong individuals, who have won great success by manifesting will power and self discipline. They admire people, who with sheer will power, self discipline and ambition, have improved their life, learned new skills, overcame difficulties and hardships, reduced their weight, rose high in their chosen field or advanced on the spiritual path.

The truth is that everyone can reach high levels of will power and self-discipline through a practical method of training. These inner power are not reserved for a few special people.

Will power and self discipline are two of the most important and useful inner powers in everyone's life, and have always been considered as essential tools for success in all areas of life. They can be learned and developed like any other skill, yet, in spite of this, only few take any steps to develop and strengthen them in a systematic way.

What is will power?
It is the inner strength to make a decision, take action, and handle and execute any aim or task until it is accomplished, regardless of inner and outer resistance, discomfort or difficulties.

It bestows the ability to overcomes laziness, temptations and negative habits, and to carry out actions, even if they require effort, are unpleasant and tedious or are contrary to one's habits.

What is self discipline?
It is the rejection of instant gratification in favor of something better. It is the giving up of instant pleasure and satisfaction for a higher and better goal.

It manifests as the ability to stick to actions, thoughts and behavior, which lead to improvement and success. Self-discipline is self-control, and it manifests in spiritual, mental, emotional and physical discipline.

The purpose of self-discipline is not living a limiting or a restrictive lifestyle. It does not mean being narrow minded or living like a fakir. It is one of the pillars of success and power. It bestows the inner strength to focus all your energy on your goal, and persevere until it is accomplished.

Both of these abilities are required for daily actions and decisions, and also for making major decisions and attaining major success. They are required for doing a good job, for studying, building a business, losing weight, bodybuilding and physical exercises, maintaining good relationships, changing habits, self improvement, meditation, spiritual growth, keeping and carrying out promises and for almost everything else.

One of the most simple and effective methods to develop will power and self-discipline is by refusing to satisfy unimportant and unnecessary desires. Everyone is constantly confronted and tempted by an endless stream of desires and temptations, many of which are not really important or desirable. By learning to refuse to satisfy every one of them, you get stronger.

Refusing and rejecting useless, harmful or unnecessary desires and actions, and intentionally acting contrary to your habits, sharpen and strengthen your inner strength. By constant practice your inner power grows, just like exercising your muscles at a gym increases your physical strength. In both cases, when you need inner power or physical strength, they are available at your disposal.

Here are a few exercises:
- Don't read the newspaper for a day or two.
- Drink water when thirsty, in spite of your desire to have a soft drink.
- Walk up and down the stairs, instead of taking the lift.
- Get down from the bus one station before or after your destination, and walk the rest of the way.
- For one week, go to sleep one hour earlier than usual.
- If you like ice cream, don't have any, for a day or two.

These are only a few examples to show how you can develop your will power and self-discipline. You may think that practicing such exercises is being tough on yourself, maybe a little, but they add so much to the storehouse of your inner strength. By following a systematic method of training you can reach far, have more control over yourself and your life, attain your goals, improve your life, and gain satisfaction and peace of mind.

Remez Sasson teaches and writes on positive thinking, creative visualization, motivation, self-improvement, peace of mind, spiritual growth and meditation. He is the author of several books, among which are "Peace of mind in Daily Life", "Will Power and Self Discipline", "Visualize and Achieve" and "Affirmations - Words of Power".

Visit his website and find articles and books filled with inspiration, motivation and practical advice and guidance.
Website: http:// www.successconsciousness.com

Show and prove to yourself that you are strong and in control, and practice the above exercises for a little while, before passing any judgement on them.

How to Find to a New Job 65% Faster

2010-08-15T07:05:00.000-07:00

Mary Berman, from Farmington Hills, Michigan,
had been looking
for work since February 2009 before
starting her Guerrilla
Job Search, in mid-September.

Up to that point, 20 weeks of job hunting had
produced zero job interviews.

Just 7 weeks later, she accepted a job on
Thursday,
November 12, as a marketing executive assistant.

How did she use Guerrilla job hunting tactics
to find work 65% faster?

"I started with the Coffee Cup Caper.
I sent a paper Starbucks coffee cup with my
cover letter and Guerrilla Resume. I heard back
from them a couple days later to get my first
interview," says Berman.

After her first interview, which went well,
Berman followed up with panache.

"It was Halloween time, so I decided to
send them a chocolate covered apple with my
hand-written thank-you note attached. A friend
of mine, who was off work that day, played
delivery person and took it to [the employer].
That was a big hit -- they were thrilled -- and
I got the second interview out of it."

Berman's second interview was with the
executive vice president. Afterwards,
she followed up diligently. "When I came home,
I wrote a 30-60-90 day plan. I had taken copious
notes during the interview and used that information
given to create suggestions for what I would do in
the first 30, 60, and 90 days. I sent that to them
via FedEx with another thank-you note. And I
got a job offer."

Now. Let's break this successful Guerrilla Job Search down ...


1. Start smart

The Coffee Cup Caper -- a paper Starbucks cup,
full-color Guerrilla Resume, and a Guerrilla
 Cover Letter (asking to meet for coffee),
 shipped in a box -- gets extraordinary results.
 By contrast, ordinary resumes and cover letters,
sent by email, get ordinary results.


2. Follow up with style

Delivering a Halloween treat with her
thank-you note was correct seasonally,
if not politically. Use good judgment before
sending items that might be perceived as bribes
by employers sensitive to such things.
In Berman's case, however, it worked like
a (chocolate-covered) charm.

And, leaving out the gift, could you arrange
to have your thank-you note delivered by a courier,
or a friend posing as one? Of course.


3. Give employers another reason to hire you

Mary did this in spades after her second interview,
when she sent a written plan of action for her first
3 months on the job.

A 30-60-90 day plan is a way of proving you
can do the work -- before you're even on
the payroll -- by describing how you would learn the job,
build rapport with employees/customers,
and contribute to the bottom line.

Mary's plan was 8 pages long and took the better
part of a Friday night to prepare.
(Before you balk at spending an entire evening at
home researching and writing a 30-60-90 day plan,
ask yourself if you wouldn't trade a night out
for getting a steady paycheck again.)


4. Score style points with your delivery

Mary's first follow-up, the chocolate-apple-thank-you note,
was delivered by a courier, not by email. Her 30-60-90 day
plan was delivered by FedEx, not by email.

Do you NOT see a pattern? Email should NOT be the
sole delivery method for your career documents.

Bottom line: This smart Guerrilla had failed
to get even one job interview in 20 weeks of
conventional job hunting with conventional tactics.

After adopting unconventional Guerrilla tactics,
she found work in only 7 weeks.

If Guerrilla job search methods can work in Michigan,
where the unemployment rate tops 15%, they can work
where you live. The only thing stopping you from
thinking and acting like a Guerrilla is you.

Resource: The same Guerrilla Resumes and Cover
Letters Mary used are: http:// www.guerrillaresumes.com

The Success Principles: How to get from where you are to where you want to be Review

2010-08-12T03:30:00.000-07:00

Product Description

Jack Canfield reveals the simple set of rules for success that led him to become the multi-million copy bestselling author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series, and shows how anyone can follow these principles to achieve their own dreams. / Greater levels of performance and achievement are attainable by anyone. This book offers the proven self-empowerment tools and time-tested performance strategies that are the basis for personal and professional success. / Jack Canfield has become the author of over 50 best-selling books by following these principles -- here he reveals how they can help you to take on greater challenges, produce break-through results and achieve undreamed of success. / With the Ten-Step Action Plan you will learn how to: -- Take responsibility for your life -- Set goals and manage time -- Invest in developing knowledge and core skills -- Face up to what isn't working and stay motivated -- Focus on your unique abilities -- Transcend other people's limiting opinions and much more. / Decide what you want, believe you deserve it and practise the principles, and with these powerful new habits you can experience astonishing opportunities and extraordinary results in all aspects of your life, from your career to your relationships.

About the Author

Jack Canfield has sold more than 80 million books worldwide under the Chicken Soup for the Soul brand. He holds the Guinness Book World Record for having seven books simultaneously on the New York Times bestseller list. Janet Switzer is a marketing expert and one of America's top speakers and coaches. She's counseled more than 50,000 companies and entrepreneurs worldwide and is founder and editor of Leading Experts e-news magazine. She has a particularly loyal following of women entrepreneurs.

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Life's Little Detours: 50 Lessons to Find and Hold onto Happiness Review

2010-08-10T09:12:00.000-07:00

Review

"When Regina Brett turned 50, the American writer and broadcaster made an insightful, funny and illuminating list of 50 lessons she had learned about everything from having fun to forgiving, loving and grabbling live with both hands. Here are four of our favourites..Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone..Don't save anything for a special occasion. Today is special enough..Over-prepare then go with the flow..No-one is in charge of your happiness. You are the CEO of your joy." (EASY LIVING - August 2010 )

Product Description

'You can get through anything life hands you if you stay put in the day you are in and don't jump ahead.' When Regina Brett turned fifty, she wrote a column on the fifty lessons life had taught her. She reflected on everything she had learned through becoming a single parent, looking for love in the wrong places, battling cancer and making peace with a difficult childhood. Here, in the tradition of The Last Lecture, Tuesdays with Morrie, Simple Abundance and Don't Sweat the Small Stuff, Regina takes her fifty lessons and explores them in short essays that are deeply personal. From 'Don't take yourself too seriously - nobody else does' to 'Life isn't tied up with a bow, but it's still a gift,' her warm and wise words will strike a chord with anyone who needs little help to get back on track and feel good about life.
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How Would you Like To Say Goodbye To Your Power Bill...?

2010-08-08T08:20:00.000-07:00

Have you found yourself frustrated due to the ever-rising power bills?
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The Emperor's New Drugs: Exploding the Antidepressant Myth Review

2010-08-04T06:14:00.000-07:00

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The Secrets Of Successful Traders Review

2010-07-31T07:57:00.000-07:00

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Tips To Build Your Self Esteem

2010-07-30T06:22:00.000-07:00

One of the most difficult challenges in a person�s life is to battle with his or her own sense of self esteem. It is a part of a person�s psychological makeup that is in a constant state of flux and if it is allowed to sink to a low enough point, it can be quite destructive to that person�s life. It impacts the choices, habits, and opportunities in that individual�s life. It changes the person�s perspective on what is achievable, and decreases the size of his or her potential.

For this reason, it is easy to see why building self confidence is such a vital practice in anybody�s life. It is a basic need that must be filled in order to be happy or to be able to consider existence to be worthwhile. If success is desired, then a high sense of self will have to be one of the key ingredients for achieving it.

Anybody can learn to build their own self esteem. They just need to be willing to learn the right tips and techniques and then to work to apply them in their own lives. This doesn�t take that much time and requires only an open mind. The result, however, is that the world suddenly becomes your oyster!

Use the following tips to get you started:

1. Think back to a time that you accomplished something. It doesn�t need to be something dramatic like winning a Nobel prize. Just remember a time when you achieved something that made you feel good about yourself. Every now and again, allow yourself the opportunity to relive that moment, feeling all of the emotions, the confidence, and the satisfaction that went along with it.

2. Occasionally, step outside of your comfort zone. This doesn�t mean that you need to do something drastic. Just break the routine and try something new. Baby steps are the first ones to take toward building your confidence and sense of self-worth and self-love.

3. Give praise when praise is due � to yourself! When you do something right or do it well, give yourself a pat on the back. You earned it!

The next step is to download a copy of a good book such as How to Build Self Esteem, which will guide you toward more significant growths in your level of self esteem.The next step is to download a copy of a good book such as �How to Build Self Esteem�, which will guide you toward more significant growths in your level of self esteem. For instant access click on this link => http:// www.howtobuildselfesteem101.com

Authority Job Killer Review

2010-07-28T08:16:00.000-07:00

Often, we purchase eBooks only to find that 80% of what is written inside is just plain theories and talk that cannot be applied in our business at all. Most authors would write all sorts of unnecessary fluff and keep talking about things that is totally not helpful -- that was what I actually had in mind when I first purchased Authority Job Killer.

I got retrenched a year back and since then I’ve been trying to find a job to no avail. Surfing the net one day, I got in contact with the Internet Business world and got really interested; after all, who wouldn’t be tempted to join in the supposedly “quickest and easiest” way to making big bucks.

Frustrated with the tons of eBooks which I’ve purchased that didn’t helped much, I bought Authority Job Killer with a slight expectation of it been like the rest but to my pleasant surprise, it wasn’t like the other products out there at all. It was one of the best that I’ve ever seen.

The 52-page long Authority Job Killer manual may seem just a little thin compared to those 100-odd pages long products out there but I’m telling you this -- Quality definitely beats quantity. All the pages were filled with techniques and strategies that we can use and implement immediately (and yes, you can see results within a short period of time too!) I especially liked the way they explained the ‘Funnel System’ and how to ‘upgrade’ your list and make them willingly pay more for your products. It was a great idea and when I started implementing it, I was making more money that before.

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The three-step system was easy to follow and quick to set up. I’ve made up to 4 Figures a month just by using the AJK method in running my business. Out of so many ebooks that I’ve bought all these months, I think Authority Job Killer is one of the best that I’ve invested in.

Why not take a look too?

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I’m sure you’d like it as much as I did!

Happiness Now!: Timeless Wisdom for Feeling Good Fast Review

2010-07-27T07:46:00.000-07:00

How often do you find yourself using the phrase: ‘This is all too good to be true’ or ‘All good things come to an end’? It is all too common a belief that in order to be happy you must earn, deserve, work and pay for it. Happiness is for tomorrow. Today is for well-behaved hardship, martyrdom and quiet desperation.

With a combination of stories, exercises, meditations, poetry and prayer, Robert focuses on keys to emotional healing, true self-acceptance, relationships, inner confidence, and pure peace of mind. Challenging, helpful, visionary and practical, Happiness Now! shows how we can begin to enjoy the happiness we truly deserve.

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4 Easy Steps to Stop Procrastination

2010-07-25T07:53:00.000-07:00

Are you a victim of procrastination? Do you often find yourself unable to meet deadlines because you spent too much time in front of the TV, cooking or even sleeping? Well, I was exactly like that just a few years ago. But, that’s now Past. These days, I can set goals and achieve them easily without any complaints. And you can do the same. Here’s a few tips to get you started.

1. Plan your daily must-do activities. Draw up a to-do list; preferably, write it down on paper; or, use a computer if you prefer. And, include all the MUST do’s in your list. These are things that must be done today. Period.

2. Prioritize the activities, the more important ones taking precedence over the less important. If there are urgent things to do, but not important enough to be worried about if not done, put them below the important ones. The idea is based on the established principle that 80% of rewards come from 20% of effort directed towards accomplishing important work.

3. Start working: Even if the deadline is 5 days from now or a month from now, starting out on an important project will help you avoid stress and do it well. When you start a major project just the day of the deadline, you are bound to stress out and leave out important points. Get in the habit of starting things before the deadline.

4. Start working bit by bit. Things may seem like huge mountains at first but it is important to stay calm. Just start working on the project or task on hand and don’t worry about getting it perfect. You still have a lot of time to iron out the details. Remember to start well before the deadline so you can focus on finishing the task and then ironing out the details. Trying to get everything right on first attempt is the best excuse used by procrastinators!

Procrastination is a deadly disease and it not only kills motivation but also your chances of success. Stop procrastinating right now and start achieving your goals. You can learn more about getting rid of procrastination and how to manage your time to achieve all your goals by visiting: http:// www.managemytimenow.com

How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact

2010-07-22T03:27:00.000-07:00

Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive.

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Discover Life on Your Terms Review

2010-07-19T09:39:00.000-07:00

Discover Life on Your Terms by Mike Mott

Mike's great new book is perhaps one of the easiest reads I've had in a ong time on the subject of Life enhancement - and believe me, I've
read a lot! The trouble with most books on this subject is that they
usually contain in excess of 300 pages, which, when you're busy can
take an age to read and digest.

This valuable and life strengthening book is succinct, interesting, and well thought-out but with good sound and sensible advice for the non-professional. It is immensely persuasive and for many this could be just the motivational kick start you need.

The practical recommendations are inspiring and you don't need to have a fortune in the bank, to become vegetarian or ever wear
orange and a leotard! It is for anybody who sees themselves in a rut or
going through a difficult period in their life. You can literally
change your life for the better if you are willing to put these
positive instructions into action.

Thank you for sharing this with me, Mike. Anyone who reads this will
benefit greatly from your wisdom.

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Subliminal Persuasion Techniques

2010-07-18T06:58:00.000-07:00

Subliminal persuasion is the way of getting another party to agree with you without outwardly doing so and without the other person noticing that you were trying to persuade him or her. A lot of people do not even notice that they have been won over by a simple smile - thus, making even that a tool for subliminal persuasion. It is essential in becoming an influential leader .

You can subliminally persuade another person through two techniques: via his or her own words, and via inflection, or the particular words we give emphasis to in a given statement. A simple sentence like "I can't assure you that" can have a lot of meanings, depending on which word you have inflected. See the examples below.

I can't assure you that. (But somebody else probably can)

I can't assure you that. (No way that will happen!)

I can't assure you that. (But, if you're lucky, you might get it.)

I can't assure you that. (But I can if it's somebody else.)

I can't assure you that. (Maybe I can assure you something else.)

Giving off what we mean via inflection is subtle. It will also help spare you from being overtly direct, especially if you're the type who hates the thought of turning someone down. Understanding which words to emphasize will save you from this awkward moment (yet you still get to have things go your way).

Another way to subliminally persuade other people is to have them eventually agree with you without them noticing it (because they thought it was their idea). This is a rather tricky method of persuasion and not many people might agree with it. But, hey, it works!

When negotiating, repeat what the other person said and then show how you will be able to achieve what they want for them. Be consistent so you don't run the risk of contradicting yourself. As long as you have what the other party needs, you hold an advantage.

Here's an example. Let's say you're trying to sell used cars to a friend. After listening to the other person tell you what he or she is looking for in a used car, emphasize the items being sought in the vehicles you have in your roster. It will be difficult for the other party to say 'no' since you already have what he or she said he or she needed. This is what subliminal persuasion is; and when employed the right way, it works like a charm every time.

There's nothing bad about using such clever persuasion techniques to get what you want. That's the way life is played. This is how the rest of the world operates. The important thing is always go for the win-win resolution. If your persuasion skills are powerful enough (and even cunning enough), you'll have no trouble winning people over.

Some like to call this influence; some argue this is foolery. However you might choose to view it, it is effective. And it won't be a surprise if you attempt to employ these effective strategies in the future; that is, if you haven't already applied them in the past.

About the Author:

Michael Lee is the author of the highly-acclaimed How To Be An Expert Persuader... In 20 Days or Less. This power-packed course reveals mind-altering persuasion secrets to turbocharge your earnings, win lots of friends, captivate the opposite sex, and make anyone subconsciously like and trust you. If you want to easily and quickly persuade anyone to eagerly do anything you want, go to http://www.20daypersuasion.com now! Special surprise gift awaits you.

500 Lovemaking Tips Book Review

2010-07-17T08:06:00.000-07:00

One of the biggest challenges couples in long-term relationships face is trying to keep their lovemaking red, hot and steamy. Early on in a relationship, the passion and newness of your lovemaking is always unforgettable; but, as that initial magic fades, it becomes harder to make things exciting again.

So is “500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets” by acclaimed author Michael Webb the right book to bring back the fire? Here’s my take on it.

The book begins with a general foundation and understanding on lovemaking, briefly discussing topics like bedroom toys, adult films, the importance of romance for lovemaking, and interesting truths about Kama Sutra. It also contains a lubrication guide and 16 fully illustrated lovemaking positions in the back of the book. These are all nice touches, but the main attraction and bulk of the book is the 500+ tips.

I have to say, I really LOVE that you can open the book, pick a page and have between 8 10 easy-to-read tips ready to inspire or use right away. No need to read through dozens of long-winded paragraphs. Everything is formatted neatly and is very easy on the eyes. This is a big plus when you’re just about to make love spur-of-the-moment and you want some ideas.

So, what about the actual tips themselves?

This book is a treasure chest of ideas. It has 539 tips in total. They range from oral sex tips for both men and women, to games you can play to make foreplay more fun (although I would have loved to see more games). It also has tips to make intercourse feel better and unique, ways to surprise your partner like “coming out of the shower with just a towel and playing with your wife,” and even some cool places to make love that most people would never have thought of. While I didn’t find all the tips exciting (which was expected), I found more than enough that appealed to me.

The tips are all mixed together, which can get a little overwhelming. I recommend you skim through the book a few times rather than trying to read the whole thing in one sitting.

This book also lives up to its promise of not containing any raunchy, degrading, immoral or perverted ideas that so many lovemaking books seem to have.

In conclusion, while not all the tips in the book amazed me and I would have been nice to see some more ‘games’, it’s still THE most complete book of tips and ideas on improving lovemaking I’ve ever read. Nothing else comes close. All in all, I found it very enjoyable to read and use :) So if you want to make your lovemaking exciting again or even if you just want some tips for more pleasure, then I highly recommend this book for you.

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Why Goal "Setting" Doesn't Work

2010-07-14T06:21:00.000-07:00

Read any personal development book and you are nearly always advised that "setting goals" is the main key to success. But why is it that so many people try goal setting, only to fail and become disillusioned with the idea?

The answer is because, while important, the actual "setting" of goals is only part of the process. Anyone can set a goal to be a billionaire by next Wednesday. It should be relatively obvious that you need to do a little more than just choosing something, then sitting back and waiting for the courier to arrive with it in a box.

This doesn't mean that goal achievement is hugely complex. In fact, it's relatively easy when you know all the pieces of the puzzle. The key is to understand and apply all those pieces.

Super-achievers don't just view their goals in isolation - they don't just set a goal, then go on with their life as normal. They have developed "goal-centered lifestyles," in which their goals are part of their day-to-day lives.

The benefits of choosing this way of life is that people are more focused, at peace with themselves, more financially secure, have fulfilling relationships, are happier and - of course - achieve far more than most people could even dream about. If they want to become rich, they do so. If they want to have a great body, they know how to make it a reality.

The sad fact is that only a small percentage of the population choose to live their lives this way. The rest choose the alternative, which leads them to life passing them by, and missing out on the great opportunities out there right now.

For more information on the differences between the goal-centered lifestyle (and the alternative that most people live by), visit: http:// www.goalguide.com

The Ancient Secret of the Fountain of Youth

2010-07-11T09:40:00.000-07:00

Highly positive results from the five Tibetan exercises
One of my hatha yoga students kindly gave me a copy of book 1 as a gift. A bit skeptical, I started to read it and was charmed by the story, intrigued as to whether the exercises would work. I gave it a try and even in the first week was amazed at the results. I am now up to doing the recommended 21 reps of each of the 5 positions. I have almost boundless energy... please click on the link below for all reviews.....

7 Days to Unstoppable Self-Confidence?

2010-07-11T05:57:00.000-07:00

This could be the most important article
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You and I both know that self-confidence the
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* Have you ever felt (or do you feel now)

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* Are you afraid to start a new business,

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* Are you frequently indecisive, or do you

procrastinate?

* Do you have a fear of going on dates or

finding love?

* Do you find yourself at a loss for words

when you meet new people?

* Do you place other people’s opinions above

yours?

* Do you have trouble believing in yourself?

* Do you secretly fear if you ask for what

you want you will be rejected?

* Do you secretly fear that no matter WHAT

you do, your inability to be Self-Confident

will hold you back for the rest of your life?

If you answered "Yes" to any of the
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GuyGetsGirl Review: A Unique and New Approach to Attracting and Seducing Women for Men Written By a Woman

2010-07-10T05:46:00.000-07:00

By now you’ve probably seen hundreds of guys all over the net promoting pickup and seduction guides, DVD’s and courses. And if you’re like me, you’ve probably even tried a few (in fact, I’ve probably spent a few thousand dollars on attraction and seduction education – including the seminars, books and stuff). Some of these ‘gurus’ peddling their wares know what they are talking about, but most don’t and are just in this industry for a quick buck.

In the best part of 10 years and after using dozens of guru’s material I didn’t come across ANYTHING written by a woman for men - until now.

I’ve finally found a collection of eBooks written by a woman – the author’s name is Tiffany Taylor. I bought access to Tiffany’s GuyGetsGirl site and instantly downloaded her 3 chunky eBooks which take you by the hand from beginner’s essentials like the importance of smiling, self-confidence up to the advanced heavily psychological stuff. There’s something in here for everybody whatever your level and lots of really powerful techniques I’d never heard of before.

I remember thinking to myself, “women don’t really know what women want, they just know what they THINK they want” but with this one I was wrong. She goes deep into the female psyche and really does expose a few “short cuts” and easy to press attraction buttons that are present in all women. And boy do they work.

I’d say this is probably the most unique and fresh approach to attraction and seduction I’ve seen in a very long time and it is well worth checking out if you have the money. If not and you want to increase your success with beautiful women, then SAVE UP and get this guide. You won’t regret it.

Dean

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300 Creative Dates Book Review - Is it worth it?

2010-06-01T08:24:00.000-07:00

Making a great first impression is everything on the first few dates. And there's no doubt that fun, creative and unique date ideas really help boost your points in the eyes of women. And if you’ve been together for years, dates help re-spark some life back into your relationship. But finding creative date ideas is the hard part!

So does Michael Webb's 300 Creative Dates book deliver on its promise as having creative, unique and fun dates?

Yes and no. Let me explain.

While there are 300 ideas in this book, you probably already guessed that you might not like or want to use all 300 of them. While many of the ideas are very creative, others are only a good reminder of places that everyone knows about but they either forgot or never realized that they’re such ideal places for a date.

Thankfully the, "I would-have-NEVER-thought-of-that-in-a-million-years!" ideas DO outweigh the date idea refreshers.

This book will make you smile, laugh and inspire you to always find the adventure in whatever it is you're doing.

It also has 'dating coupons' you can give to your partner to redeem at a later date. Three examples are: "Redeem this for a fruit-picking day at an orchard or berry patch, a one-hour bike ride or an evening at a nearby drive-in theatre.” Plus some you can use yourself.

Also, the book has a great section on dating disaster stories that will definitely show the guys what NEVER to do on dates.

So is the book perfect?

No. While there are 300 ideas, you really can't read more than 50-60 in one sitting before it gets tedious, and some descriptions are a little lengthy. However, pages 93-94 do have a nice list of bullets with 'quick and to the point' date ideas ready. No elaboration. If you're in the need of a date idea fast, then you'll love these pages. All in all, this is still a fantastic book that everyone should read!

Whether you want to impress that special someone on a first date, surprise them for a special anniversary or occasion, or just want to breathe new life into your relationship because it's getting a little on the bland side, then grab this book now.

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What is Hypnosis?

2010-02-25T06:47:00.000-08:00

While hypnosis is not a word we hear everyday, it is a word that many people seem to have a preconceived definition for. The most common thought is that hypnosis is an altered state of mind that brings the subject to a trance like state.

The rest of the definition not quite as well known is subject is vulnerable to suggestions in order to change their lives. When combined this is a correct assumption and a rather accurate description.

However hypnosis entails more than just the trance like state you see depicted in many movies and television shows, it is a deep and complicated relationship held between hypnotist and subject that comes complete with a desired set of goals to achieve.

Hypnosis is an altered state of mind. When a subject is under hypnosis they are much more responsive as they experience their inner world the subject’s thoughts and ideas become more vivid and actionable through the art of suggestion and language.

The responsiveness in a hypnotic trance is much more sensitive than that of a normal state of being; thoughts and suggestions presented by you, the hypnotist, will become part of your subject’s inner world creating a pallet for you to work with and mold into the desired outcome.

This is important to remember, because as you sharpen your skills as a hypnotist you will always be affecting your subject, everything that becomes a part of your clients inner world will eventually become a part of their outer world as they put your hypnotic suggestions into action.

Another thing that hypnosis is is a very natural way of being, it is not magical or strange, and in fact many people spend a large amount of their days in hypnotic trances, as you learn to entrance people you will start to notice those around you who are experiencing hypnotic trances in everyday life.

An example of an everyday experience that can often result in a hypnotic trance is driving. Many times we get behind the wheel and know where we started, and suddenly we are at our destination. We don’t recall how we got there or any of the events that happened along the drive, this is a hypnotic trance.

The rhythms we are used to, such as the feel of the car, can relax us to the point that our subconscious takes over and does the work for use while we, excuse the term as many like to call it, ‘zone out’. This may sound strange at first but when you really consider all the activities we do everyday we have been conditioned all through out our lives to enter hypnotic trances.

Have you ever watched a movie and later realized that the only thing in your mind and field of vision was a 15 inch screen, obviously you can see the rest of the room, people, cat and dog while focusing on the screen but the concentration and trance that is produced makes it seem as though the only thing that exists in the room is that little screen and the action it is producing.

Reading a book, we often get lost in the story and never realize what the ‘real world’ is doing around us. As you read you experience changing emotions, happiness, fear, suspense, sadness and tears. This interaction with the words and information being relayed to your mind alters your state of mind and becomes a hypnotic process in itself.

There is almost always the effect that the book you are reading will change either your mood, emotion, ideas and ultimately could change how you live your life, such is the objective of a hypnotist.

This emotional response is unconscious, the changing of your emotions, ideas and life, is one of the fundamental and guiding themes when learning hypnosis. You have no choice in your emotions, you do not get to choose how you feel about a thing, it is simply a conscious response by your unconscious mind as a reaction to the suggestions you are presenting to yourself.

Hypnosis can and usually will result from any repetitive task you enjoy engaging in. Runners experience runners high, they alter their mind and experience a trance like state while their body works they feel healthy and alive. Entering this altered state of mind is a form of self hypnotherapy which is a very powerful place to put yourself, and a powerful thing to be able to accomplish for yourself.

For more information please visit~> Conversational-Hypnosis.com

Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth and Happiness

2009-10-15T07:23:00.000-07:00

Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth and Happiness

Review

'Hot stuff ... an idea whose time seems to have come' --Bryan Appleyard, Sunday Times

Review

'Hugely influential .... choice architects are everywhere'

Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth and Happiness

2009-10-14T06:54:00.000-07:00

Fierce Conversations: Achieving Success in Work and in Life, One Conversation at a Time

Fierce Conversations is a way of conducting business. An attitude. A way of life. Communications expert Susan Scott maintains that a single conversation can change the trajectory of a career, marriage or life. Whether these are conversations with yourself, partner, colleagues, customers, family or friends, Fierce Conversations shows you how to have conversations that count. Scott reveals how to: * Overcome the barriers to meaningful conversations * Express who you are and what you believe * Confront tough issues with courage, confidence and sensitivity * Overcome fear to get to the heart of the problem * Inspire followers, attract believers and build visions that become reality * Bring about real change through talking * Encourage others to reveal their true opinions Packed with exercises and questionnaires to help you have the best conversations possible, Fierce Conversations will revolutionise the way you communicate.

About the Author

Susan Scott has spent sixteen years training clients in the art of fierce conversations. She maintains an international consulting firm Fierce Conversations Inc. She provides programmes to CEOs and executives. She lives in Seattle, Washington.

Fierce Conversations: Achieving Success in Work and in Life, One Conversation at a Time

Think Like Da Vinci: 7 Easy Steps to Boosting Your Everyday Genius

2009-10-12T08:43:00.000-07:00

Think Like Da Vinci: 7 Easy Steps to Boosting Your Everyday Genius

'Buy it. Read it. Live it!' TONY BUZAN 'By capturing the very essence of Da Vinci's life and genius- the seeming perfect integration of mind, body, spirit and soul- Michael Gelb guides us in a discovery and understanding of the boundlessness of our own full human potential.' DEEPAK CHOPRA 'A brilliant and practical guide to awakening and training our vast, unused resources of intelligence and ability! Get this book and stick with it.' TED HUGHES

Product Description
New edition, including a new introduction by the author, of this inspiring guide to developing your full potential. A perfect buy for the business market as well as those wishing to explore their power of their brain, this book shows you how to imitate Leonardo Da Vinci's thought processes and so enhance your aptitude in every area of your life. Learn how to fulfill your true potential by developing the thought processes used by Renaissance master Leonardo Da Vinci. Simply by imitating his insatiable quest for information and experience, we can all enhance our own aptitude in all facets of our lives. Michael Gelb discusses the seven fundamental elements of Da Vinci's thought process and offers practical ways to incorporate them into our own lives. The techniques outlined in the book help readers to develop the same traits of whole-brain thinking, creative problem solving and continuous learning, all of which are vital in today's world. Numerous exercises, anecdotes and illustrations help readers to master these techniques and create a personal and professional renaissance of their very own.

Think Like Da Vinci: 7 Easy Steps to Boosting Your Everyday Genius

The Buzan Study Skills Handbook: The Shortcut to Success in Your Studies with Mind Mapping, Speed Reading and Winning Memory Techniques

2009-10-08T10:20:00.000-07:00

The Buzan Study Skills Handbook: The Shortcut to Success in Your Studies with Mind Mapping, Speed Reading and Winning Memory Techniques (Mind Set)

Review

"The perfect guide for any student who wants to get more from their studies, improve their brainpower, consolidate their concentration and learn from the master of memory - Tony Buzan." - www.ukparentslounge.com

"The perfect guide for any student who wants to get more from their studies, improve their brainpower, consolidate their concentration and learn from the master of memory" - Epigram

Product Description

In Buzan's Study Skills, three of Tony Buzan's most enduring subjects - Memory, Speed Reading and Mind Mapping - are combined in a single guide to enable students to make the most of their studies.

Improve grades, make more effective notes, plan better essays, make associations between different subjects, have at-a-glance notes and records for easy revision, learn how to use effective memory techniques to recall information and increase reading speeds up to 1000 words per minute.

The perfect guide for any student who wants to get more from their studies, improve their brainpower, consolidate their concentration and learn from the master of memory - Tony Buzan.

The Buzan Study Skills Handbook: The Shortcut to Success in Your Studies with Mind Mapping, Speed Reading and Winning Memory Techniques (Mind Set)

How A Tap Can Change Your Life

2009-10-05T08:04:00.000-07:00

HOW TO DO EFT

All the basics of EFT are right here on this page. It is easy to learn but once you apply it to your problems, you'll see it's effectiveness seems almost miraculous.

Your biggest stumbling block is likely to be how to begin. What problem do you treat first? If you've never done EFT before, try starting with something easy. You know what your big issues are so avoid them while you're still getting comfortable with the five steps.

The most important thing is to start someplace. There is no one right way to begin. There is no one right way to address a problem. There is nothing you should do first. Give it your best shot and see what happens. If you do something wrong, the worst that can happen is nothing changes.

The Five Basic Steps of EFT

1. The Setup:
Decide what feeling, emotion or pain you wish to treat. Be specific.

2. The SUDS Level:
Rate the intensity on a 1-10 scale. A rating of 1 means it barely registers while a 10 means it hurts so much you can�t think of anything else. Rate the feeling as it exists NOW.

3. The Affirmation or Setup Phrase:
You want to find the sore spot which is located on your pectoral muscles, a couple inches in from the top of your armpit. It's called a sore spot because it's actually sore for most people when they rub it.

Lightly rub the sore spot in a circular motion while repeating three times,

Even though I have this ________, I deeply and completely accept myself.

This is considered the standard affirmation but it�s by no means the only usable affirmation. Say it with feeling even if you don�t believe it�s true.

If you are in a situation where saying the affirmation out loud might cause a problem, you can say it silently.

4. The Tapping:
Gently and quickly tap each of the seven spots shown on the chart about seven to ten times.

As you tap, state out loud "this ____________." Fill in the blank with whatever word(s) you used to fill in the blank in the affirmation. You don't say the entire affirmation while you tap. Tapping harder or longer generally doesn�t make this process work better or faster.

1. Under Eyebrow

2. Side of the eye

3. Under Eye

4. Under Nose

5. Chin

6. Under the Collarbone

7. Under Arm

5. The Re-evaluation:
Examine what you just treated and give it a new SUDS rating. If your SUDS level has gone down or stayed the same, redo the above steps but change your affirmation slightly to Even though I still have some of this _________, I deeply and completely accept myself.

If the feeling, pain, emotion or condition you are treating has changed to something different after tapping, as it often does, give the new feeling a SUDS rating and re-do steps 3 -5.

If additional issues pop up during a session, treat them. Don�t quit too soon. Don�t settle for feeling "a little better." Keep tapping until your SUDS level is at 0 and you feel really good about your issue.

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Younger You: Unlock the Hidden Power of Your Brain to Look and Feel 15 Years Younger

2009-09-23T08:11:00.000-07:00

Younger You: Unlock the Hidden Power of Your Brain to Look and Feel 15 Years Younger

Product Description

A nutritionally based program to jump-start brain hormones and reverse the effects of aging

Finally, a pivotal piece of the aging puzzle is solved. In this New York Times bestseller Dr. Eric Braverman reveals how controlling brain hormones through diet, lifestyle changes, key vitamins, minerals, and nutritional supplements can halt the aging process.

In Younger You Dr. Braverman presents his anti-aging life plan designed to help you look and feel years younger. After taking an in-depth quiz to help pinpoint your problem areas, you will discover how to immediately address your most pressing needs. Vital organs like the heart, liver, brain, and lungs will experience the benefits of hormonal balance, so you will live a lot longer and be healthier, too! More detials ==>>

Younger You: Unlock the Hidden Power of Your Brain to Look and Feel 15 Years Younger

The Luck Factor: The Scientific Study of the Lucky Mind

2009-09-19T10:51:00.000-07:00

The Luck Factor: The Scientific Study of the Lucky Mind

Why do some people lead happy successful lives whilst others face repeated failure and sadness? Why do some find their perfect partner whilst others stagger from one broken relationship to the next? What enables some people to have successful careers whilst apparently similar others find themselves trapped with jobs they detest? And can unlucky people do anything to improve their luck - and lives? Ten years ago, Dr. Richard Wiseman decided to search for the elusive luck factor by investigating the actual beliefs and experiences of lucky and unlucky people...Looking at the results, Wiseman was able to identify four main factors which explained living a lucky and unlucky life. He was then able to show a group of people that considered themselves unlucky, how to think and behave like lucky people. The results were astounding with almost all participants reporting significant life changes: including increased levels of luck, self-esteem, physical well-being, confidence, and success.

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What Every Body Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-reading People

2009-09-15T09:04:00.000-07:00

What Every Body Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-reading People

Review
"A masterful work on nonverbal body language by an exceptional observer. Joe Navarro's work has been field-tested in the crucible of law enforcement at the highest levels within the FBI. I cannot praise the book enough." -- --David Givens, Ph.D., author of Crime Signals and Love Signals

Product Description
What you say is often far less important than how you say it. One of the harbingers of success is understanding how nonverbal cues such as body language, dress, and demeanor affect how you are perceived and understood. In this book Navarro, one of the leaders in nonverbal behaviours, demonstrates how to modify your subconscious statements to your greatest advantage and also read what other people are 'saying' nonverbally. These skills will increase your ability to accurately assess moods, decode behaviors, anticipate problems, avoid hidden pitfalls, influence negotiations, and understand the secret motivations of those around you.

What Every Body Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-reading People

The Magic of Thinking Big

2009-09-14T07:14:00.000-07:00

The Magic of Thinking Big

Millions of people throughout the world have improved their lives using "The Magic of Thinking Big". Dr David J. Schwartz, long regarded as one of the foremost experts on motivation, will help you sell better, manage better, earn more money, and - most important of all - find greater happiness and peace of mind. "The Magic Of Thinking Big" gives you useful methods, not empty promises. Dr Schwartz presents a carefully designed program for getting the most out of your job, your marriage and family life, and your community. He proves that you do not need to be an intellectual or have innate talent to attain great success and satisfaction - but you do need to learn and understand the habit of thinking and behaving in ways that will get you there. This book gives you those secrets!

The Magic of Thinking Big

7 Habits of Highly Effective People

2009-09-12T10:17:00.000-07:00

7 Habits of Highly Effective People

According to Steven R. Covey, to live with security and wisdom, and to have the power to take advantages of the opportunities that change creates, we need fairness, integrity, honesty and human dignity. Quite a tall order when you consider that most of us live our lives in a permanent state of flux, questioning our ideals and values and fighting a daily battle with the lack of self-confidence that stops us from taking risks of any kind. But, in The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, Covey manages to make it sound as if changing the way we look at ourselves and the world around us so that we can become more successful both personally and professionally an absolute doddle. He defines the "habits" as "the intersection of knowledge, skill and desire" and states that the "Seven Habits" of the title are not mutually exclusive, but rather when developed together help to form a well-rounded, sensitive, confident and effective human being. As with many self-help books, much of what you read here is based on basic common sense and can at times be irritatingly obvious. However, what Covey manages to do so successfully is to break down the barriers which prevent all of us from taking a long hard look at ourselves, and then gradually introduces new rules which allow us to move first from dependence to independence and then towards the ultimate goal of interdependence. But of course, the only real way to test the value of The Habits--be proactive, begin with the end in mind, put first things first, think "win/win", seek first to understand and then to be understood, synergise, sharpen the saw-- is to work on them. This book is as good as any place to start on the road to self-awareness and self-improvement in the workplace and in the home without becoming too irritatingly smug and self-satisfied. --Susan Harrison

Product Description
THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE is recognised as one of the most influential books ever written. In this seminal work, Stephen R. Covey presents a holistic, integrated, principle-centred approach for solving personal and professional problems. With penetrating insights and pointed anecdotes, Covey reveals a step-by-step pathway for living with fairness, integrity, honesty and human dignity -- principles that give us the security to adapt to change, and the wisdom and power to take advantage of the opportunities that change creates. Translated into thirty-four languages and with phenomenal sales, THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE has been the key to the success of legions of business leaders and individuals the world over.

7 Habits of Highly Effective People

The 48 Laws Of Power

2009-09-11T08:20:00.000-07:00

"Learning the game of power requires a certain way of looking at the world, a shifting of perspective," writes Robert Greene. Mastery of one's emotions, and the arts of deception and indirection are, he goes on to assert, essential. The 48 laws outlined in this book "have a simple premise: certain actions always increase one's power ... while others decrease it and even ruin us." The laws cull their principles from many great schemers--and scheming instructors-- throughout history, from Sun-Tzu to Talleyrand; from Casanova to con man Yellow Kid Weil. They are straightforward in their amoral simplicity: "Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit," or: "Discover each man's thumbscrew." Each chapter provides examples of the consequences of observance or transgression of the law, along with "keys to power," potential "reversals" (where the converse of the law might also be useful), and a single paragraph cleverly laid out to suggest an image (such as the aforementioned thumbscrew); the margins are filled with illustrative quotations. Practitioners of one-upmanship have been given a new, comprehensive training manual, as up-to-date as it is timeless. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Sunday Times Magazine
'Invaluable manual on the use and abuse of power... indispensable and often-cited influence on many of America's most successful rappers'

The 48 Laws Of Power (A Joost Elffers Production)

How To Control Stress

2009-09-09T03:51:00.000-07:00

Everyone has some degree of stress in their life, but hardly anyone has the skills to deal with it. An astonishing 50 per cent of the reasons why people go to the doctor are stress-related, and one recent scientific study showed that in the current economic climate, more people are missing work from stress-related problems than ever before. Read this book and, as a result of having greater control over the stress in your life, you will feel better and live longer. Your immune system will be stronger, your stamina will be significantly increased, and you will make better decisions. Better still, the overall quality of your life will be significantly enhanced! More than just a book, this is a stress control system, with a powerful hypnosis CD that will help you achieve deeps states of relaxation, have more energy and be more effective in your everyday life. Over 25 years of research and months of careful scripting, Paul McKenna has created a daily companion that will allow you to access your body's natural capacity for instant calm. As you learn to change your response to stress and worry, you will be able to stay at your best for longer and bounce back quicker than ever before. You will be unburdened of the stress you carry with you wherever you go and be able to live a happy, calmer, rich and joyous life!

The Law of Attraction and ‘Success’ – What Is ‘Success’ Anyway?!

2009-09-03T04:00:00.000-07:00

Everyone seems to strive to be ‘successful’ in life. We all look to apply the ‘Law of Attraction’ to gain ‘success’.

But what is ‘success’? What makes you successful, and what makes you a ‘failure’?

To answer this question, let’s first take a look at our world. Our societies are completely focused on our five senses of seeing, hearing, tasting, touching and smelling. Our five senses are constantly stimulated. They are enticed and exploited all the time.

It is therefore no surprise that we tend to focus our minds on materialism 24 hours per day. We tend to focus all the time on big cars, big houses, lots of money in the bank, and so on.

There is nothing wrong with that in itself. Neither does this mean that being ‘spiritual’ equals being poor and living in a dump. That doesn’t make sense either. The problem is not with the ‘material’ objects themselves. I’ll get back to this later.

First, I’d like to know this… So many people want to ‘attract a new car’. But what is it with cars anyway? Somehow the car has become a symbol of status, of ‘success’. I know a number of people (even some well-known ones) who are so obsessed with their cars, they even give names to their car.

A friend of mine had a car and was really proud of it. He called this car ‘Infinity’. Another friend of mine doesn’t care the least bit about what kind of car he drives. Still, he needed to buy a car the other day to be able drive to work. But because he didn’t really care about it, he simply bought the first set of wheels that he liked even just a bit and of which he thought the price was right for him. “If I can drive to work and back with it, then that’s a great car for me”, he thought.

He bought himself a pretty old car to be honest. It certainly didn’t look that fancy. The other friend would have dubbed it a piece of junk. But this guy couldn’t care less. In fact, he could see the fun of it. In response to my other friend who called his car ‘Infinity’, this guy decided to give his car a name too. He called it ‘Finity’.

I kid you not, this is a true story. What it illustrates is the relativity of ‘status’ and ‘success’. What one person would consider being dignified, could be considered by the next person as pathetic.

Like I said, the trap is not with material objects themselves. These are just frequency patterns anyway. The problem comes when we see those objects as the ultimate goals and the very symbols of success that confirm whether we ‘made it’ in life or not.

It is for this reason that many people look to others to confirm to themselves if they are ‘doing well’ or if they are ‘successful’. When you don’t succeed in terms of big houses, big cars, big money, you are often considered as a ‘failure’, and often consider yourself as such.

The whole system thrives on consumption and the constant expansion of consumption, and the more we consume, the more we are considered to be ‘successful’. This even leads to many people borrowing more of what they don’t have and getting in even deeper trouble, simply to provide themselves the very things that should testify to others of their alleged ‘success’.

So is this the kind of ‘success’ you are looking for?

What if I told you that the real success you are looking for is not having all kinds of material stuff, but is actually called ‘happiness’?

After all, why would you want a lot of money, or a big house, or a big car? Why would you want others to approve of you? In the end it all comes down to a desire for a sense of security and happiness, and being able to live life on your own terms. The quest ends when you’re happy and fulfilled.

But when are you happy and fulfilled?

Here’s a hint from what a wise man once said:

“Money and fame do not happiness make.”

Don’t get me wrong. There is nothing wrong with having a lot of money, or being well-known, or having big cars and big houses. These are all thought fields and are just experience. The problem is that so many people get absorbed in pursuing the material ‘dream’ that they forget about why they are doing that in the first place.

I believe it was John Harricharan who said this:

“Most people are so busy trying to make a living, they forget to make a life.”

He’s right. Most people are ‘human doings’ instead of ‘human beings’.

The funny thing is that the greatest payoff from trying to get what you want through working with the ‘Law of Attraction’ comes from a state of being. It is a state of happiness, contentment and love and gratitude for what IS that gets you what you truly want.

At any rate, the greatest payoff from your attraction efforts does certainly not come from an obsession with ever more material stuff in the merry-go-round that gets faster by the day, for the sole reason to seek approval and confirmation of your ‘success’ from others, in order to compensate for a lack of self-esteem that is the cause of this obsession to begin with.

A sense of security, self-esteem and ‘success’ is found within yourself, not outside.

And the funny thing is that once you give up the obsession with possession and finally acknowledge your true self, the person who you really are deep inside, you seem to manifest what you want much more easily.

When that happens, you can enjoy all kinds of material stuff as much as you like, if that’s what you choose. You can choose to have a big car if you like. You can choose to live in a big house if that’s what you want.

The difference is that you won’t be controlled by the never-ending pursuit of these things. You won’t be ‘on the path to happiness and success’ anymore. You would just BE happy instead, and from there you will allow things to manifest instead of chasing them forever. It’s a small difference in perception, but with profound effects.

It is then that you will start to live life, instead of life living you.

So what is ‘success’?

Success, my friend, is what you define it to be.

Now go manifest your success, whatever that is for you!

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The Greatest Advice Of All Time?

2009-08-26T10:19:00.000-07:00

So why are you interested in the ‘Law of Attraction’ anyway?

Obviously, it’s about doing what you really want to do with your life.

We’ve said it repeatedly, quoting the wise man’s adage:

Money and fame do not happiness make.

Of course, they may help in being happy. For example, it’s pretty nice not having to worry about money. Let’s face it… Most people like money. And others like fame, and many like both.

The thing is… money and fame are usually merely external confirmations of the fact that you’re being happy and doing what you want with your life already.

If you are, money and fame are usually no issues anymore. You either don’t care about them because you’re being happy anyway. Or (many times) they may come as side-effects, or symptoms caused by the fact that you’re already being happy with yourself and your life.

That’s where the principle of being happy and grateful for what happens to you and the situation you’re in is relevant.

Clearly, money and fame are really different things compared to the desire for money and fame. The desire for implies that you’re not being happy and grateful right now, thinking you need money and/or fame in order to be happy and do what you want with your life.

This underlying feeling of needing (and thus the deeply-engrained feeling of lack) determines what you send out… the frequency you broadcast if you will. And this frequency ‘attracts’ a like frequency, and this is the mechanism through which needing pushes things away in a very small nutshell.

Anyway, this is something we’ve talked about more at length in other articles, so we’re not going to repeat this anymore.

In this article we want to get into something a bit more concrete… something more practical to use in your life. This might sound simple, but upon deeper thought it may just be the greatest word of advice of all time…

You know, according to the American physicist, philosopher and management expert Danah Zohar, doing what you really want with your life requires what she calls ‘Spiritual Intelligence’. It’s about your own, personal, deeper actuating motives.

Zohar says that self-development and purpose/meaning are principles that are central to spiritual intelligence. When you’re in touch with your own ‘inner universe’, you can develop your talents and give full scope to your natural gifts.

As such, you’ll live the life that fully matches who you are (which is not necessarily the life that others think you’re supposed to live). Within yourself, you’ll discover your own actuating motives and what really inspires and animates you.

Zohar says that when you manage to live your life from that inspiration, you’re quite a happy person. This pretty much connects to what the American psychologist Abraham Maslow (who came up with the so-called ‘hierarchy of needs’ aiming to explain human motivation) called ‘self actualization’.

According to Maslow, self-actualization is the ultimate state of human development, a spiritual condition in which people are creative, ‘playful’, and tolerant. And if you’ve read our books and articles, you know that these are the very conditions that facilitate the extent to which you can ‘work’ the ‘laws of the universe’ (if you want to call them that).

And you know what? There’s actually a specific group of people who can teach us a lot about this state of ‘creativity’, ‘playfullness’ and ‘tolerance’, or rather ‘spiritual intelligence’...

These people are children. Kids are almost the very paragon of spiritual intelligence.

Of course, this doesn’t mean we should all start behaving in infantile ways. However, we can start to look at the world more like children do. We could start to re-invent and re-discover the qualities that we so often lose in the process of what’s called ‘growing up’ and ‘becoming adults’.

Those qualities are:

Being open
Trust
Sincerity
Being genuine
Curiosity
Eager to learn
Generosity
Feeling adventurous
Wonder and astonishment on the least things…
And not to forget: unconditional love.

Let’s face it… People who are living life like this are pleasant company, both to themselves and to others.

Spiritual intelligence has got nothing to do with religion or faith. Of course, both are fine if pursuing them makes you feel good inside, if pursuing them is your own choice if it’s not imposed on you by others.

No, spiritual intelligence is about self-reflection and intuition. There’s a difference between what many consider ‘being spiritual’ and ‘spiritual intelligence’.

You can do reiki, qigong, meditation, burn incense, do rain dances in wildlife outfits all day and read books about ‘spirituality’. And of course that’s all fine if that makes you feel good.

However, ‘spiritual intelligence’ rather refers to making the choices that suit you and actually consciously experiencing and feeling the satisfaction and feeling of fulfillment and self-realization that come with that.

That’s what’ll make you happy.

So what’s potentially the greatest advice of all time?

REMAIN CHILDLIKE.

Be open. Be adventurous. Be curious. Be eager to learn. Be genuine, not least to yourself. Don’t judge. Acknowledge the wonder of life and the amazing experience it brings.

After all, it seems so real, doesn’t it?

In the words of the late comedian Bill Hicks:

“The world is like a ride in an amusement park. And when you choose to go on it, you think it’s real because that’s how powerful our minds are. And the ride goes up and down and round and round. It has thrills and chills and it’s very brightly coloured and it’s very loud and it’s fun, for a while.

Some people have been on the ride for a long time and they begin to question, is this real, or is this just a ride? And other people have remembered, and they come back to us, they say, “Hey – don’t worry, don’t be afraid, ever, because, this is just a ride...”

And we kill those people.

“We have a lot invested in this ride. Shut him up. Look at my furrows of worry. Look at my big bank account and my family. This just has to be real.”

Just a ride... But we always kill those good guys who try and tell us that, you ever notice that? And let the demons run amok.

But it doesn’t matter, because it’s just a ride. And we can change it anytime we want. It’s only a choice. No effort, no work, no job, no savings and money.

A choice, right now, between fear and love.”

So what’s your choice?

Remain childlike. And enjoy the ride!

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Power through the people

2009-08-12T07:59:00.000-07:00

Have you come across a person who is so naturally friendly that when you put him inside a room of strangers, he'll be friends with almost everyone in no time? We call such a people-person, someone unbelievably nice and charismatic that he can charm anyone into doing anything.

A socially-empowered person achieves so much greatness, basically because of the people that catapult him to success. He earns the trust and all-out support of the people, whom he had helped before. He never runs out of help. He can do anything with the plethora of people behind him. All because he knows he maximizes his social potential!

See, if you know your social skills and you make use of them, you will reach self-empowerment. Self-empowerment is making a general overhaul in your life and turning yourself into a happier and more successful person.If you can be one of those people-persons, then I can't see any reason why you will not succeed. You just have to know how to start.

1. Be genuine.

Hypocrisy will just bring you all the way down. Be genuinely nice and interested to people. Once they perceive that you are Mr. Hypocrite with selfish intentions, you might as well say goodbye to self-empowerment.

2. Be the greatest listener that you can be.

To earn the love and trust of the people, listen to their problems and sympathize with them. Do not just hear them out, listen to them with your heart. Make eye contact when the person talks to you. Listen as if every word matters, and it does. Brownie points when they find out that there is a confidante in you.

3. Laugh out loud.

I do not mean that you force yourself to laugh for every joke cracked by someone, albeit you do not find it funny at all.This means finding humor in things and not being too darn serious. A person oozing with an awesome sense of humor attracts crowds and eventually, attracts success.

4. Don't forget yourself.

In the process of fluttering around like a social butterfly, you might forget yourself, allowing everyone to push you over. Remember, love and value yourself before anyone else. If you deem yourself respectable and worthy of affection, people will flock to you and not trample on you.

5. Do random acts of kindness.

You don't have to do a John Rockefeller and blow your savings to charity. Little acts of kindness matters the most, and this can be as simple as giving someone a surprise you-take-care card or helping an elderly cross the street. When we were kindergarten students, kindness was taught to us and greatly practiced. Now is the time to revive the good deeds and this time, let them stay for good.

6. Contact your old friends.

Sad how some friendships are destined to goodbye, but thanks to technology, you can do something about it. Relive the good old days by flipping your yearbook and look for the great people whom you want to communicate with again. Adding these old friends to your roster of support peers will surely make you feel good all over.

7. Develop your personality.

Are you grouchy, grumpy and generally morose? Whoa, you can't go through life with those. Get rid of the bad traits and habits that perpetually hamper your growth. And really, who wants a grouchy friend anyway?

8. Be confident.

Be able to stride to the other corner of the room and introduce yourself to people with that winning smile of yours. Just remember: be confident, not arrogant.

9. Practice control.

When angry, don't snap at anyone. Never throw a tantrum. Stay calm and collected. Be adult enough to take control of situation and transform your anger into something more productive and passive. As soon as people think your anger goes to volcanic proportions easily, they will find it hard to come to you.

10. Keep nurturing your relationships.

Your relationship with your family, friends and significant others is too precious that you must not neglect it whatever happens. Go out and have fun with them. Do things together. Happiness will never fly from your side as long as the people who matter the most are close to you.

In the end, using people for self-empowerment means becoming a better and more lovable person. It's a win-win situation: the people know they can turn to you anytime and vice versa.

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Life is About Choices and the Decisions We Make

2009-08-02T04:26:00.000-07:00

Life is like a road. There are long and short roads; smooth and rocky roads; crooked and straight paths. In our life many roads would come our way as we journey through life. There are roads that lead to a life of single blessedness, marriage, and religious vocation. There are also roads that lead to fame and fortune on one hand, or isolation and poverty on the other. There are roads to happiness as there are roads to sadness, roads towards victory and jubilation, and roads leading to defeat and disappointment.

Just like any road, there are corners, detours, and crossroads in life. Perhaps the most perplexing road that you would encounter is a crossroad. With four roads to choose from and with limited knowledge on where they would go, which road will you take? What is the guarantee that we would choose the right one along the way? Would you take any road, or just stay where you are: in front of a crossroad?

There are no guarantees.

You do not really know where a road will lead you until you take it. There are no guarantees. This is one of the most important things you need to realize about life. Nobody said that choosing to do the right thing all the time would always lead you to happiness. Loving someone with all your heart does not guarantee that it would be returned. Gaining fame and fortune does not guarantee happiness. Accepting a good word from an influential superior to cut your trip short up the career ladder is not always bad, especially if you are highly qualified and competent. There are too many possible outcomes, which your really cannot control. The only thing you have power over is the decisions that you will make, and how you would act and react to different situations.

Wrong decisions are always at hindsight.

Had you known that you were making a wrong decision, would you have gone along with it? Perhaps not, why would you choose a certain path when you know it would get you lost? Why make a certain decision if you knew from the very beginning that it is not the right one. It is only after you have made a decision and reflected on it that you realize its soundness. If the consequences or outcomes are good for you, then you have decided correctly. Otherwise, your decision was wrong.

Take the risk: decide.

Since life offers no guarantee and you would never know that your decision would be wrong until you have made it, then you might as well take the risk and decide. It is definitely better than keeping yourself in limbo. Although it is true that one wrong turn could get you lost, it could also be that such a turn could be an opportunity for an adventure, moreover open more roads. It is all a matter of perspective. You have the choice between being a lost traveller or an accidental tourist of life. But take caution that you do not make decisions haphazardly. Taking risks is not about being careless and stupid. Here are some pointers that could help you choose the best option in the face of life’s crossroads:
· Get as many information as you can about your situation.

You cannot find the confidence to decide when you know so little about what you are faced with. Just like any news reporter, ask the 5 W’s: what, who, when, where, and why. What is the situation? Who are the people involved? When did this happen? Where is this leading? Why are you in this situation? These are just some of the possible questions to ask to know more about your situation. This is important. Oftentimes, the reason for indecision is the lack of information about a situation.

· Identify and create options.

What options do the situation give you? Sometimes the options are few, but sometimes they are numerous. But what do you do when you think that the situation offers no options? This is the time that you create your own. Make your creative mind work. From the most simplistic to the most complicated, entertain all ideas. Do not shoot anything down when an idea comes to your head. Sometimes the most outrageous idea could prove to be the right one in the end. You can ask a friend to help you identify options and even make more options if you encounter some difficulty, but make sure that you make the decision yourself in the end.

· Weigh the pros and cons of every option.

Assess each option by looking at the advantages and disadvantages it offers you. In this way, you get more insights about the consequences of such an option.

· Trust yourself and make that decision.

Now that you have assessed your options, it is now time to trust yourself. Remember that there are no guarantees and wrong decisions are always at hindsight. So choose… decide… believe that you are choosing the best option at this point in time.

Now that you have made a decision, be ready to face its consequences: good and bad. It may take you to a place of promise or to a land of problems. But the important thing is that you have chosen to live your life instead of remaining a bystander or a passive audience to your own life. Whether it is the right decision or not, only time can tell. But do not regret it whatever the outcome. Instead, learn from it and remember that you always have the chance to make better decisions in the future.

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How to Become an Ideal Leader

2009-07-28T08:07:00.000-07:00

How to Become an Ideal Leader

When you are at work, do you get frustrated because things don't seem to be happening the way they’re supposed to be? You see people milling around but nothing gets accomplished. And in the daily hustle and bustle, do you feel that your goals remain just that – goals. Then maybe its time for you to stand up and do something about it.

Most people are content just to stand around listening for orders. And it isn't unusual to adopt a follow-the-leader mentality. But maybe, somewhere inside of you, you feel the desire to make things happen – to be the head, not the tail. Then maybe leadership just suits you fine.

Some people believe that great leaders are made, not born. Yes, it may be true that some people are born with natural talents. However, without practice, without drive, without enthusiasm, and without experience, there can be no true development in leadership.

You must also remember that good leaders are continually working and studying to improve their natural skills. This takes a commitment to constantly improve in whatever endeavor a person chooses.

First of all, let's define leadership. To be a leader, one must be able to influence others to accomplish a goal, or an objective. He contributes to the organization and cohesion of a group.

Contrary to what most people believe, leadership is not about power. It is not about harassing people or driving them using fear. It is about encouraging others towards the goal of the organization. It is putting everyone on the same page and helping them see the big picture of the organization. You must be a leader not a boss.

First of all, you have to get people to follow you. How is this accomplished?

People follow others when they see a clear sense of purpose. People will only follow you if they see that you know where you are going. Remember that bumper sticker? The one that says, don't follow me, I'm lost too? The same holds true for leadership. If you yourself do not know where you're headed to, chances are people will not follow you at all.

You yourself must know the vision of the organization. Having a clear sense of hierarchy, knowing who the bosses are, who to talk to, the organization's goals and objectives, and how the organization works is the only way to show others you know what you are doing.

Being a leader is not about what you make others do. It's about who you are, what you know, and what you do. You are a reflection of what you're subordinates must be.

Studies have shown that one other bases of good leadership is the trust and confidence your subordinates have of you. If they trust you they will go through hell and high water for you and for the organization.

Trust and confidence is built on good relationships, trustworthiness, and high ethics.

The way you deal with your people, and the relationships you build will lay the foundation for the strength of your group. The stronger your relationship, the stronger their trust and confidence is in your capabilities.

Once you have their trust and confidence, you may now proceed to communicate the goals and objectives you are to undertake.

Communication is a very important key to good leadership. Without this you can not be a good leader. The knowledge and technical expertise you have must be clearly imparted to other people.

Also, you can not be a good leader and unless you have good judgment. You must be able to assess situations, weigh the pros and cons of any decision, and actively seek out a solution.

It is this judgment that your subordinates will come to rely upon. Therefore, good decision-making is vital to the success of your organization.

Leaders are not do-it-all heroes. You should not claim to know everything, and you should not rely upon your skills alone.

You should recognize and take advantage of the skills and talents your subordinates have. Only when you come to this realization will you be able to work as one cohesive unit.

Remember being a leader takes a good deal of work and time. It is not learned overnight. Remember, also, that it is not about just you. It is about you and the people around you.

So, do you have the drive and the desire to serve required of leaders? Do you have the desire to work cooperatively with other people? Then start now. Take your stand and be leader today.

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Impossible is Just a Word

2009-07-17T07:20:00.000-07:00

Impossible is Just a Word

Everyone, at some point of his or her life, has dreamed of being somebody special, somebody big. Who hasn't fantasized about being the one who hits the game-winning homer? Who hasn't dreamed of being the homecoming queen? And how many times have we dreamed of being rich, or successful, or happy with our relationships?

Often, we dream big dreams and have great aspirations. Unfortunately, our dreams remain just that – dreams. And our aspirations easily collect dust in our attic.

This is a sad turn of events in our life. Instead of experiencing exciting adventures in self actualization, we get caught up in the humdrum of living from day-to-day just barely existing.

But you know what? Life could be so much better, if only we learned to aim higher.

The most common problem to setting goals is the word impossible. Most people get hung up thinking I can't do this. It's too hard. It's too impossible. No one can do this.

However, if everyone thought that, there would be no inventions, no innovations, and no breakthroughs in human accomplishment.

Remember that scientists were baffled when they took a look at the humble bumblebee. Theoretically, they said, it was impossible for the bumblebee to fly. Unfortunately for the bumble, bee no one has told it so. So fly it does.

On the other hand, some people suffer from dreaming totally outrageous dreams and not acting on them. The result? Broken dreams, and tattered aspirations.

If you limit yourself with self-doubt, and self-limiting assumptions, you will never be able to break past what you deem impossible. If you reach too far out into the sky without working towards your goal, you will find yourself clinging on to the impossible dream.

Try this exercise. Take a piece of paper and write down some goals in your life. Under one header, list down things ‘you know you can do’. Under another header, write the things ‘you might be able to do.’ And under one more, list the things that that are ‘impossible for you to do.’

Now look at all the headers strive every day to accomplish the goals that are under things ‘you know you can do’. Check them when you are able to accomplish them. As you slowly are able to check all of your goals under that heading, try accomplishing the goals under the other header-the one that reads ‘you might be able to do.’

As of the items you wrote under things I could do are accomplished, you can move the goals that are under things that are ‘impossible for you to do’ to the list of things ‘you might be able to do.’

As you iterate through this process, you will find out that the goals you thought were impossible become easier to accomplish. And the impossible begin to seem possible after all.

You see, the technique here is not to limit your imagination. It is to aim high, and start working towards that goal little by little. However, it also is unwise to set a goal that is truly unrealistic.

Those who just dream towards a goal without working hard end up disappointed and disillusioned.

On the other hand, if you told someone a hundred years ago that it was possible for man to be on the moon, they would laugh at you. If you had told them that you could send mail from here to the other side of the world in a few seconds, they would say you were out of your mind. But, through sheer desire and perseverance, these impossible dreams are now realities.

Thomas Edison once said that genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. Nothing could be truer. For one to accomplish his or her dreams, there has to be had work and discipline. But take note that that 1% has to be a think-big dream, and not some easily accomplished one.

Ask any gym rat and he or she will tell you that there can be no gains unless you are put out of your comfort zone. Remember the saying, “No pain, no gain”? That is as true as it can be.

So dream on, friend! Don’t get caught up with your perceived limitations. Think big and work hard to attain those dreams. As you step up the ladder of progress, you will just about find out that the impossible has just become a little bit more possible.

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How To Define Procrastination To Get The Most Out Of Yourself

2009-07-13T09:52:00.000-07:00

How To Define Procrastination To Get The Most Out Of Yourself

How do you define procrastination? For many people procrastination is something that they associate and identify themselves with far too easily. The challenge is that once you identify with a behavior (positive and negative) it becomes part of who you are and your experiences and actions are filtered through this identity.

We can define procrastination as "task aversion" which is the irrational delay of an intended course of action. Translated from the original Latin meaning, procrastination quite literally means 'in favor of tomorrow'. As human beings we are always pursuing ways of being better off - everything we do, we do with a positive intent. Although procrastination seems to contradict this fact, it actually illustrates a very important point. What we do, or fail to do, is not purely the result of our conscious choices, but often the result of factors we are not aware of consciously. When you procrastinate, at some level of your unconscious thinking, you believe that taking the action will leave you worse off than actually taking the action.

To change this negative tendency, you need to do two things. Firstly you must remove the association and 'attachments' that you might have with procrastination. Realize that you are NOT a procrastinator. Although you might procrastinate at times, you cannot afford to limit yourself by defining yourself by your behavior. Secondly, you must redefine procrastination in such a way that it will motivate and empower you instead of limiting you.

The way we define things for ourselves will determine the way we interact with it. If you see procrastination as a chronic problem that you were born with, then it is likely that you will struggle with it all your life. If you define procrastination as a bad habit that you need to deal with at some point in the future, then it will control you. If you see procrastination as something you cannot overcome then you will probably be right.

If you define procrastination as a negative tendency that you choose to put aside, then you will be empowered to take action despite procrastinating. Whether you CAN do something is rarely the result of your ability. It's almost always a case of motivation. Motivation is nothing but an inner drive that compels you to action, and gaining leverage on yourself is a powerful way to find the necessary motivation.

There is a definition of procrastination that can do just that. I choose to define procrastination as the thief of time. When you think about it you will realize just how true it is because procrastination is what keeps you immobilized and stuck in inaction. Time is your most valuable and your most precious asset. People go to extreme measures to protect their money and their possessions, but do very little to 'protect' their time - the one thing that money can never buy. Learning to value your time, is a powerful strategy for overcoming procrastination and getting the most out of your life. When you value something you will look after it and protect it.

Your time is limited. Have you ever wondered how many days you have in your lifetime? At first blush you might guess that it is a hundred thousand or even a million. In fact, if you grow to be 70 years old your entire lifetime will only have 25 550 days. If you are 30 now, then you've only got another 260 000 hours left - and a third of this will be spent sleeping.

You have just as much time as Bill Gates, Mother Theresa, Steve Jobs, Oprah Winfrey or any other person on this planet. The only difference is in the way you use your time. Don't allow procrastination to steal your most precious asset.

Instead, see procrastination as a call to action. It is likely that what you are procrastinating about is something that you 'must' do. See, what we don't do and what we don't face controls us. But when you face it and you do it, you liberate yourself and it no longer has any control over you. If you have this sense of urgency and awareness that your time is precious, then you won't allow the thief of time to hold you down. What you get out of yourself does not rely on your ability. It relies on how much of your resources you can get access to and this is almost exclusively a psychological exercise. By changing how you define procrastination for yourself you can start to change this internal conversation and empower yourself to take action and make things happen.

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How to Overcome Procrastination - Using the Law of Attraction!

2009-07-08T08:06:00.000-07:00

How to Overcome Procrastination - Using the Law of Attraction!

"Procrastination is opportunity's assassin."
~ Victor Kiam, American businessman, Remington Electric Razors (1926-2001)

"Oh, how I wish I could overcome procrastination! Somebody please help me stop procrastinating! But not today, I'm busy."

Procrastination is a double-edged habit. It deserves our attention as well as our appreciation. The guilt we feel indicates that our procrastination serves as the destroyer of dreams. However, when inspired by our connection to our values it also serves as the protector against wasted energy and futile activities.

Regardless of the type of procrastination, it's important to forgive yourself for doing the best you could do, given who you are and what you've learned up until this point. You are a Divine Child of God and the Truth is that it's possible that your sensible delays were inspired according to your Divine path.

On the other hand, feeling frustrated because your lack of action has postponed your good, is a message from your higher self that what you want requires your attention and you're not currently in alignment with its effortless fulfillment.

Let me clarify the distinction between when we can appreciate our procrastination and when we should instead kick ourselves out of lethargy.

Once upon a time, I was stuck at the Los Angeles airport with no money for my cab or shuttle ride home to Newport Beach, about 50 miles South on Pacific Coast Highway. I knew I had to get home and I had neglected (procrastinated) to call friends to arrange a ride. Then, when my flight arrived, I was really ready to get home but for some reason I sort of meandered through the airport a bit aimlessly.

I admit that because I didn't have the money for the fare, I procrastinated finding a ride for fear of having to ride-and-run, known in other circles as dine-and-dash!

I picked up my luggage, went to the gift shop, grabbed a bag of chips and truly walked around aimlessly for an indefinite amount of time. Eventually, reality sunk in. I had to get home and even though I didn't have the money, I had to take the shuttle.

My heart raced and my stomach ached thinking about how I would face the driver at my driveway. What would they do? Would they call the cops? Would they take a hot check so that I could cover it later?

I made a decision as I got on that shuttle that would change my life forever. I decided to manifest a miracle. I didn't know how but I knew enough about the law of attraction to know that if I could put my attention on what I wanted while handing it over to God, that something would happen and I'd be alright.

I got on the shuttle, smiled and said hello to the man and his daughter, the single woman, and the cute elderly couple. I immediately began to pray and apply my thoughts toward a magical solution and most importantly, every time I felt fear, I handed it over to God (the big U).

The father and daughter were the first to exit, and I began to really be persistent with 'handing it over' as the fear came in waves. I began to feel a sense of willingness to just handle whatever happened and found myself inspired to talk with the elderly couple. They were visiting from South Africa, had a daughter my age, loved to travel and meet new people. We laughed and continued to talk as I intermittently remembered my dilemma and handed it over again and again.

The next stop was to be the hotel of my new friends but the gentleman told the driver to take me home first as they were enjoying my company. When we arrived, I turned to tell my new friends what a pleasure it was to meet them and they were talking to each other. He turned to me and said, "My dear, we have enjoyed your company so much. Please allow us to pay for your fare."

With tears of delight and gratitude, what could I do but graciously accept?!

This was a turning point for me and my ability to succeed as a conscious creator. My procrastination in arranging a ride inspired my aimless wandering, which in turn was actually inspired by my higher intentions to succeed in truly understanding the law of attraction. I was inspired to procrastinate so that I would show up at the right time, in the right pick-up zone to meet my new friends and manifest a mini-miracle.

This is inspired procrastination. Honor the truth that sometimes there is a higher purpose for Divinely Ordered procrastination. If you are running behind schedule, you miss your exit, you meander aimlessly, etc. allow yourself the flexibility to accept that somehow this too is perfect and in alignment with what you really want.

On the other, deadly edge of the procrastinator's sword is the fear based procrastination that will inevitably delay and destroy your dreams.

The following tools may be used to overcome this type of procrastination. You want to set yourself up for success by inspiring inspiration. Yes, using the law of attraction, you can actually inspire and aligned action.

If you postpone making the number of cold-calls necessary to succeed in your business, then you are procrastinating out of fear of success, fear of rejection, or fear of failure, for example.

If you postpone working out and eating right, then you may be procrastinating out of a sense of futility, a feeling of worthlessness, or a fear of deprivation.

If you feel guilt when you look at your procrastination tactics, then you are being called to move towards inspired action from your higher self.

To overcome procrastination here are a few practical tips:

1 - Write it down! Write everything that you must/could/should/want to do on paper; write out your high-level goals, the mini-milestones, the tasks involved, and the decisions that must be made to accomplish your goals. Then, prioritize and write down your reasons and your rewards. If it's too big a task, then spend just 10 minutes at a time until it's done.

2 - Chunk it down! We procrastinate eating the Elephant because it's such a huge undertaking! Break it down into bite-sized morsels (on paper) and ask yourself what is ONE thing I can do today or right now.

3 - Use a timer set for 15 minutes. You have 15 minutes to do ONE thing on your list - pick it and do it. If you are inspired to do more, great keep going. If not, that's okay too!

4 - Just put on your shoes! Whatever goal you have in mind starts with the first inspired action. If you want to run 6 miles, it begins with simply putting on your running shoes; nothing more, nothing less. When you are procrastinating - simply ask yourself what's the first task? Take action on the smallest incremental item on that task. You'll be amazed at how quickly you will be inspired to run once your running shoes are on.

5 - Reward yourself - when you accomplish each project as well as each milestone.

6 - Be human and give up perfectionism! Do it imperfect on purpose. If you procrastinate for fear of it being imperfect, get over it. An action performed imperfectly is superior to inaction performed perfectly.

To overcome procrastination using the law of attraction, use both the law of attraction and Emotional Freedom Technique.

First, launch a living vision that paves the way for inspired action then upon awareness of doubts/fears use Emotional Freedom Technique to eliminate the blocks.

A - Inspire Inspiration with a Living Vision

Launch a living vision that addresses inspired, daily action. This is a one minute exercise that will change your life forever. If you will simply imagine yourself 'enjoying the act of taking daily consistent action towards your goal' in a consistent, daily living vision, eventually you will be inspired to do what you are imagining.

Launching a Living Vision that you are taking daily, inspired action is a "No Fail" method! You will find yourself inspired with a passionate, connected sense of certainty and eagerness and you won't be able to stop yourself from taking action. It will work in one way or another every time.

For example:

If you want to be a prolific writer but you procrastinate or feel that you have writer's block, then launch the following living vision every day for 7 - 21 days and record what happens:

"Yes! I am so enthusiastic about how easy it is for me to write every day. It's like the words just flow and most of the time I don't even know where they are coming from. The characters inspire me to new heights and the storyline comes out of left field, jumping onto the computer screen with profound clarity and conviction. You know, I'm so grateful that it's always been this easy for me. I have always been able to simply sit down and allow the words to flow. I have to admit that I am a prolific writer and it's always been easy for me."

If you want to start exercising or be more consistent with your exercise routine, then launch the following living vision every day for 7 to 21 days and see what happens:

"I love exercising and staying focused on my goals. It's so easy for me to make this a priority. I always seem to have the energy to work out, not matter what time of the day it is. I also always seem to have the time as my life simply supports me in achieving my ideal health and fitness. I know others say they don't have the energy or time, and I just can't even imagine this being the case for me! I simply feel inspired to work-out regularly and the time happens easily as does having the energy within to accomplish my goals. There's something magical that happens when I put on my work-out gear or my gym shoes, it's like the angels practically carry me through my routine as soon as the gear touches my body. I simply put on my gear and I'm destined to a fabulous work-out that I absolutely love. And, I love the way I look and feel. I love and enjoy my body!"

Launch your own living visions to inspire inspiration and action. Allow your living vision to be a breathing, flowing, ever-evolving masterpiece of the activities that you want and desire.

B - Use Emotional Freedom Technique to overcome procrastination.

Formulate your own using the following Emotional Freedom Technique set-up phrases and positive implanting statements as prompts.

* Even though I procrastinate, I choose to love and accept myself anyway.
* Even though I am a habitual procrastinator, I lovingly support myself in taking inspired action.
* Even though I sabotage my success by procrastinating, never the less, I am pleasantly surprised at how easy it is for me to take action from this point forward.
* Even though I am afraid of success and therefore I procrastinate, never the less, I see myself easily taking inspired, consistent action.
* Even though I put off doing what I know must be done, I love, accept and forgive myself. And, I choose to easily take inspired, daily, consistent action.
* Even though I can't seem to stop procrastinating, never the less, I am so passionate excited that I am reliable and unswerving in my commitment to take action.
* Even though I hate the fact that I keep procrastinating and I don't know how to stop, never the less, I find myself easily focusing on the completion of small steps every day.
* Even though I feel terribly guilty for being such a procrastinator, I easily choose to chunk my projects down and just begin it now!

The law of attraction is our ally in manifesting success and prosperity as well as the little things that we want in life, such as successfuly defeating procrastination. Remember that it's important to use your attention to manifest your big dreams as well as your daily desires.

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Gain The Confidence You Always Wanted

2009-06-27T10:48:00.000-07:00

There are probably hundreds of confidence building products out there on the internet today, yet it’s hard finding one that addresses every important issue there is to know about building confidence effectively. Some may assure you that building confidence is as easy as following a 3-step program, others may claim to have you confident and raring to go within 3 days.

The fact is, a lot of these products often use the same old techniques that have been mentioned for decades. They don’t have anything new to offer, and for someone who might have read it all, tried it all, and still failed in their confidence building efforts, it can be quite disheartening.

The first time I stumbled upon Peak Confidence, I thought it may have been one of those rehashed confidence building books that weren’t worth another second of my time. But having read the free report provided, I thought that it provided an interesting perspective on confidence building, and the visualization techniques in the report were quite enlightening.

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I was convinced by the free report to give Peak Confidence a go. After all, if the free report contained such impressive techniques, how could the entire course not be worth a try?

And you know what? I was glad I did.

What I like about Peak Confidence is that it uses techniques and language that is simple to understand and follow. Some guides tend to get too technical, and relating to them can be a real pain. Peak Confidence is a comprehensive guide, yet an easy read. True, a small portion of the main eBook mentions common concepts often seen in other confidence building books, but that’s a given considering you only have limited ways of going about it.

What impressed me however was the “meat” of the entire guide, more specifically Chapter 5, which speaks about how exactly you’re able to build confidence more effectively. Most other guides will hype ways on how you can build confidence fast, but these “quick-fixes” rarely tend to have long lasting effects.

Peak Confidence tells you the steps you need to take in order for you to achieve your maximum level of confidence (hence the name Peak Confidence, of course), and how you can maintain that level of confidence for the long run. From using positive talk as affirmations to keeping oneself physically fit, Peak Confidence addresses possibly every issue there is to consider when trying to instill and maintain a high level of confidence.

The full package includes a Workbook, an additional self-esteem manual, and a confidence booster software that runs on your computer. The Workbook acts as a measuring stick for your confidence building efforts, and you can use it to determine just how far you’ve come along in your journey.

The self-esteem manual (entitled The Easy Guide To Building Self-Esteem) goes hand in hand with your main Peak Confidence guide. It is a guide that details the importance of having a great sense of self-worth, and the techniques listed within the chapters of this eBook are certainly some of the more impressive ones I’ve read in a while.

The chapter that I particularly love was the one addressing the fact that we don’t always have to apologize for our actions, particularly for our successes. Some people tend to find success a guilty pleasure, and always second guess themselves and the fruits of their hard labor, especially if confronted by envious, less successful individuals who aren’t lacking in choice words. This particular chapter tells you that it’s quite alright for you to rest on your laurels, and that if you worked hard for it you deserve every right to do so.

The last bonus is the Confidence Booster Extreme software, which is based on the proprietary subliminal messaging technology from Greg Frost. What the software does is that when run, it flashes subliminal affirmations on your screen, and it aims to embed these positive messages into your brain. It’s a complex, involved way of tricking the subconscious into a state of unwavering confidence, and in essence your mind is reprogrammed into eliminating and overcoming your deep-seated issues with confidence.

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It’s a great package that should be worth at least a hundred dollars considering how potentially life-changing it can be, but at $17.95 it’s undoubtedly a steal. Most of the techniques contained within the guides (the main and bonuses) are indeed unique, and I dare say revolutionary, because I haven’t read anything that comes close to the effectiveness of Peak Confidence.

Reprogram Your Mind To Materialize Your Dreams

2009-06-23T08:53:00.000-07:00

I’ve seen quite a few confidence building courses on the internet over the years, and I must say that there aren’t many that have managed to impress me. Most I’ve seen are simply rehashed from existing books on confidence, with nothing new to offer. It’s often the same old techniques, which have been used time and time again in different contexts in different books.

So when I got wind of Peak Confidence, I was naturally wary. The first thought that came to mind was, “Here we go, yet another rip-off out to make a couple of bucks.”

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But you know the old saying: Never judge a book by its cover. This, of course, applies to eBooks as well. I gave the site a once-over, browsed through what it had to say, and honestly I was barely convinced to give it a try. The one decisive factor for me taking a chance on Peak Confidence was the fact that I had nothing to lose, considering I could always refund within 60 days (which I have done with quite a number of other products).

Actually, I was quite surprised by what I found.

Peak Confidence is in fact one of the more comprehensive confidence building courses I have ever come across. The first couple of chapters defines confidence and what it should mean for you as a person, and the qualities that one must have in order to be confident. It establishes the fact that confidence must begin from the inside, and in order for you to transform yourself into a more confident person, you must first understand yourself.

This eBook contains one of the most insightful content with regards to confidence building that I have read thus far, and it even goes on to take you by the hand and lead you, step by step, on how you can build confidence the effective way. Most other guides tend to show you ways on how to become confident faster, but these techniques rarely last. Peak Confidence shows you specific methods on how you can attain and maintain a heightened sense of confidence, without having it waver through the years or when you encounter circumstances that would usually have a detrimental effect on your sense of self.

The full complete package includes a Workbook that you can use to gauge your confidence building progress as you go along, and it’s really a nifty tool. I found it useful, especially for those with a considerable lack of self-confidence, because what the Workbook really is, is a key component in building up one’s confidence. After all, what better way to build confidence than physical evidence detailing your progress as you grow to be more confident each day?

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As a bonus, the brains behind Peak Confidence (Victor Keith and Greg Frost) have included a free self-esteem eBook, which serves as a complement to the main Peak Confidence guide. As if the main guide wasn’t enough, “The Easy Guide To Building Self-Esteem” details more ways one can build confidence the effective way and achieve a greater sense of self worth at the end of the day. It’s a feel-good guide that teaches you how to be comfortable with yourself as a person, and how negative talk can affect your sense of self worth. It teaches you the essentials and importance of having a good sense of self worth, but at the same time how you can be a better person in the long run.

The bonus also includes a Confidence Booster Software, which works on the principles of Greg Frost’s exclusive subliminal technology. They claim that this software will instill a greater sense of confidence in you by broadcasting subliminal messages and embedding positive affirmations into your mind. The software does this by flashing the messages on your computer screen, and while I initially found this a little disconcerting, once I got used to it.

I’ve seen how effective this course is, because I’ve tried it myself and I’ve recommended it to others, and we’ve all seen considerable improvements to our confidence. The good thing about these kinds of courses is the fact that you’re able to save a ton of money from seminars and life coaches, and what’s great about Peak Confidence is that it is one of the rare few products out there that is really, really effective.

For $17.95, it really is great value for money, all things considered. You’re getting something that is potentially life-changing, and you won’t even have to shell out hundreds for someone to tell you the things you can read for yourself. It is definitely a product I would highly recommend if you’ve ever experienced a moment of self-doubt in your life.

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Can you really get more out of something than you put into it without violating the laws of physics?

2009-06-14T04:43:00.000-07:00

For ages, the notion of getting more out
of a system than it input by the operator
has always been ridiculed as being an
idea fit for the perpetual motion nuts.

But, what if there is one specific
distinction that once known, allows one
to easily see what needs to be applied
in order to tap into the Holy Grail of
abundance?

The taboo physics that explain all of
this are finally available in simple
English that just about anyone can
understand! And in case you're wondering,
no, this has nothing to do with perpetual
motion.

The mind power, law of attraction and
abundance world is full of 'gurus'
telling you how to manifest anything you
want in life and a bunch of other related
promises. It is usually filled with
new age jargon and explaining that the
Universe will supply what you need because
of this and that are simply not good enough.

If they understood the principles that
nature really operate by, wouldn't they be
able to give you straight answers on
specific principles based on real science
and not rhetoric and fluffy woo woo?

Wouldn't they be able to apply this knowledge
to a machine to show how a machine can also
be built according to these principles to give
more output than what you have to put in?
They should be able to do this if they understand
the real natural principles involved but they
aren't showing any of this.

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Review of Master Your Mind (Adam Khoo)

2009-06-07T08:37:00.000-07:00

Do you ever wish you had more time, money, or other resources? If only you had all those things, you believe, you could make all your dreams come true. Alas, you don’t, and so, year after year, your dreams stay just that: dreams.

But it doesn’t have to be like that. In his book, Master Your Mind, Adam Khoo argues that all those perceived limitations are just illusions. The fact is, he writes, we all have everything we need to be successful. We just need to learn how to put it to use. And in this book, he teaches exactly how it’s done.

He starts with the premise that we all have basically the same neurological make-up. We all have roughly the same 1,000 billion neurons in our brains. It’s what we make of them that makes the difference.

So how is it that some people are able to accomplish so much with their 1,000 billion nerve cells, and others accomplish zilch? Adam argues that the key to those differences lies in the behaviors and habits that get installed while we grow up. The majority of people are not exactly brought up with a winning mindset. And unfortunately, most of those people never question what they do and never change their habits. It probably never occurs to them that they could. But of course we CAN change habits, behaviors and beliefs by stimulating our brains in the right way and creating new mental patterns.

The technology Adam uses to reprogram the mind is NLP, i.e., Neurolinguistic Programming, which has proven to be highly effective at that task. And after carefully reading it, I found that Master Your Mind is not just another book on NLP, useful as that may be, but it actually goes far beyond that.

First of all, Adam’s Master Your Mind offers a comprehensive, thorough, and easy-to-follow description of the actual techniques that are necessary to accomplish that goal. But it doesn’t stop there. It’s also an extensive workbook that helps the reader to put all those techniques to use right away. Thirdly, it offers a wealth of inspiring examples.

Adam Khoo himself is a case in point. Starting out as an academically weak student at the very bottom of the pile, he used some of those very strategies he teaches here to reprogram himself and turn himself into a top student. Moreover, unlike his fellow students who were satisfied with a normal career path and income come graduation, he set himself the goal to become a millionaire by age 26 – and achieved it.

He started his first business while still in high school, and several more while in college, and he even became a best-selling author with his book on how to become an excellent student. He developed a program called Patterns of Excellence that he used to teach others to repattern their mind to achieve success as well.

So Adam is quite an inspiration indeed. And he provides us with many more inspirational examples throughout the book, from Sylvester Stallone to Richard Branson.

From the outset, Adam urges us to have the right mindset: And one of the key parts of that mindset is planning for success by setting specific goals, developing strategies to achieve those goals, and putting them into action.

Of course, if you do enough challenging things, some of them will not work out as planned, which is something most people call “failure” and try to avoid at all cost. Adam, however, argues that there’s no such thing really. What may seem like failure is just feedback, and that attitude is essential for achieving any goal because paying attention to feedback helps us stay or get back on the right track and accomplish our goals.

He also introduces two more essential ingredients: an empowering belief system, and the right kinds of values. He doesn’t leave it at that, but provides plenty of specifics and work sheets that help his readers to establish those for themselves.

Next, Adam takes away our excuses! He urges us to stop playing the victim. Instead, he shows that taking absolute responsibility for everything that happens in your life is the key to self-empowerment. Which, by the way, does NOT mean blaming yourself. Far from it. Instead, it means that when something doesn’t go according to plan, you ask yourself what YOU can do to turn things around. Whether it’s customers that won’t buy or colleagues that are uncooperative, reclaim your power to change things. And the only person whose actions you really have control over is you.

And so, this is what it means that you can only change what you take responsibility for. If you believe something is out of your control, how could you possibly do something about it?

Adam takes it even further: not only does he challenge his readers to take responsibility for their results, but also for how they feel. This book is not for whiners but for people who are prepared to do serious work on themselves.

And in keeping with that, each chapter features exercises and action questions that guide the reader through that work that will, as the book promises, help them master their mind.

Among the key aspects of Adam’s mind mastery program are beliefs and how to take control of them and turn them into the kind that will get results. He calls them the “tap to our personal potential” and provides evidence that they can even change our biochemistry.

Once again, that section is followed by an extensive workbook section where you can track down any limiting beliefs and change them into empowering ones.

And that’s just for starters. Adam goes on to provide detailed instructions on how to achieve key performance by gaining control of your emotional states. There’s a long section on successful modeling, one of the key concepts of NLP and a key tool for achieving success.

Next, a detailed chapter on how to manage your brain, with how to take control of all the aspects of your perception and imagination, by manipulating its submodalities, along with instructions on associating and disassociating. While I’ve read about these before, I’ve never seen them treated so clearly and in this much detail. Once again, it comes with detailed workbook so you can actually do it and not just read about it.

Of course, the techniques for manipulating submodalities and emotional states serve a purpose, to motivate yourself, to overcome procrastination, to remove intense negative emotions and change them into neutral ones, to change cravings to disgust, and much more.

He even shows how to use the swish pattern technique to change lifelong habits almost instantly, including how to move from hitting the snooze button and going right back to sleep to jumping out of bed with enthusiasm as soon as the alarm goes off.

There’s more, including a detailed section on anchoring, both on setting anchors for desired states of mind, and on removing unwanted anchors, and another section on meaning.

All in all, this is a very comprehensive program on mastering one’s mind, and anyone who does all the exercises can hardly help but feeling profoundly changed.

Any drawbacks? Master Your Mind, with its 364 pages, is really long for an ebook, and it’s been a bit of a pain to read on the small screen of my ibook, what with having to scroll up and down all the time. But it was so worth it that I didn’t mind anymore once I got into it. Besides, if you have a bigger screen, that shouldn’t be an issue anyway. And, of course, you can always print it out.
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The Secret of The Most Successful People on The Planet:

2009-05-29T05:24:00.000-07:00

The Secret of The Most Successful People on The Planet:
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All conditions in life are created by consciousness. You manifest exactly what you perceive. If you try to express abundance towards another while seeing lack in them, you will perpetuate conditions of lack in your experience with them. In order to experience abundance, you have to perceive abundance. If your world really was abundant, then you'd expect that others have more than enough to give to you for what you give to them, and you'd receive joyfully knowing that they'll keep having more themselves…

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That is why people who have wealth consciousness keep getting wealthier compared to the rest of the world. They have the freedom to charge for whatever they do according to the amount they believe it is worth, even when it is to people who try to tell them they are charging too much, or should not be charging at all. It is because wealth conscious people perceive their reality as abundant and do not allow themselves to be affected be the perceptions of those that come from a limited consciousness…
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If everyone in these world was wealth conscious and freely gave money to others and freely received it when it is appropriate, then everyone would be as wealthy as they could be. This is because energy would flow freely and hence everyone would be able to experience what they desire without holding back from paying for it, and others would not hold back from paying them for what they contribute. The economy would be much smoother and the progress of the entire world would advance extremely fast…

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My Computer is Faster than your Computer!

2009-05-21T09:23:00.000-07:00

My Computer is Faster than your Computer!

You may have the fastest Computer in the world. But, mine is faster!

About now you will probably be saying this guy is out of his mind. Not Really, I am just talking about a different type of computer. One that is completely organic.Your brain!

Our computers run at fantastic speeds these days. We have the ability to gain tremendous amounts information in just a fraction of a second. And our brain ( WOW! What a device to have at our fingertips!) It can assimilate and transfer information much faster than the fastest computer.

But what restricts information flow coming from your computer and getting into your Brain? Well, most of us read, or maybe you have learned to speed-read. But these are still too restrictive for you to be effective.

What would you do if I told you that there is a way to open that restriction up, so that you heighten your information flow? Would you be interested in doing that? What if I told you that you would also gain memory, mental clarity, enhanced decision making powers, and more,… as added benefits that simply come along for the ride?

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10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship

2009-05-14T05:43:00.000-07:00

10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship

By Michael Webb

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Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic and romance that it once had?

You’re not alone.

Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.

Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:

1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.

3. FUN WITH WATER

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.

4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.

6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH

Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.

8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.

9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."

10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.

Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.

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Is Hypnosis Real? Is It A Sham?

2009-05-07T07:27:00.000-07:00

A lot of people who begin their research into hypnosis often ask the question “Is hypnosis real?” This is a very valid question, and is not one that should be dismissed.

The answer is of course that hypnosis is very real, but with hypnosis being an unregulated industry, there are a number of so called “gurus” and “hypnotists” who really don't have a level of training that is consistent with more professional hypnotists.

This can of course lead people to believe, after one or two failed attempts with hypnosis, that hypnosis doesn't work. The reason hypnosis fails is never because hypnosis doesn't work on the person. Everyone can be hypnotized, despite what some hypnotists may say. It simply comes down to the skill of the hypnotist concerned.

Recent research into hypnosis has shown that people can be broken into two “suggestibility” types. These include physical and emotional suggestibility. One easy way to think of it is that emotional suggestibility is more common to people who are introvert, whilst physical suggestibility is more common to people who are introvert.

Hypnosis has come a long way within the past thirty years. What was once a field that was used merely as a way to treat psychological ailments and for entertainment, has now become a field that can be used to persuade people to do many, many things.

Traditionally, hypnosis was used very directly, and it is still used in this manner today by many hypnotists. The fact of the matter however, is that only physical suggestibles respond to direct suggestions. Emotional suggestibles respond to indirect suggestions, and it wasn't until the time of Dr. Milton Erickson that a new discreet form of hypnosis began to emerge.

Erickson devised ways to use hypnosis in discreet settings, in a way that co-operated with a person, as opposed to a way that worked against them. Erickson allowed the apparent 50% of the population that “couldn't be hypnotized” to be hypnotized. So when people ask “Is hypnosis real?” just remember that it may be due to a failed experience by a hypnotist who wasn't aware of this new suggestibility typing.

In order for someone to be hypnotized, their suggestibility typing must first be identified. Once this is done, inducing someone into a state of hypnosis becomes a very easy process.

So as you can see, the answer to the question “Is hypnosis real?” is a definite “yes”, however it comes down to the skill of the hypnotist concerned as to whether or not hypnosis will be effective on you, now whether or not “is hypnosis real”.

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Subliminal Persuasion Techniques

2009-05-06T10:36:00.000-07:00

By Michael Lee

I can't assure you that. (But somebody else probably can)

I can't assure you that. (No way that will happen!)

I can't assure you that. (But, if you're lucky, you might get it.)

I can't assure you that. (But I can if it's somebody else.)

I can't assure you that. (Maybe I can assure you something else.)

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Michael Lee is the author of the highly-acclaimed How To Be An Expert Persuader... In 20 Days or Less . This power-packed course reveals mind-altering persuasion secrets to turbocharge your earnings, win lots of friends, captivate the opposite sex, and make anyone subconsciously like and trust you. If you want to easily and quickly persuade anyone to eagerly do anything you want, go to http://www.20daypersuasion.com now! Special surprise gift awaits you. ==>>Click Here!

ATTRACT MIRACLES IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE!

2009-05-04T03:36:00.000-07:00

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Dear Friend, In a minute or so, I’m going to show you how to gain access to a set of downloadable DVDs (and bonus CDs) that captured the most life-changing event I ever facilitated. (The things that happened at this event still give me goose bumps when I think about them.) I’ve been reluctant to make these videos available to the public as people spent thousands of dollars to travel to this event from every continent on the globe. I’m about to give in due to public demand and tell you more about this event and where you can get access to these videos, but first I want to ask you some very telling questions. Let’s get started… Do you EVER feel controlled by past beliefs you have about yourself? Do you ever say things to yourself like…

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“I’m not smart enough”
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“I’m unattractive”
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“I’m a loser”
Or any other limiting beliefs and thoughts?

If so, don’t feel bad.

Once you CLEAR YOURSELF OF LIMITING BELIEFS ABOUT YOURSELF, you can easily and effortlessly live a life filled with miracles in every area of your life.
Here is just a small sample of what you’ll learn from this incredible 2-day Zero Limits experience...

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The importance of getting to “zero”
Three states of being and how they affect you
Why you need to help yourself – not others
The importance of gratitude
The four elements of the mind
Who the creator is
How to use your super conscious
Why you don't decide anything
The meaning and use of the word Hawaii
A guided breathing exercise that will amaze you

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My Computer is Faster than your Computer!

2009-05-03T04:30:00.000-07:00

My Computer is Faster than your Computer!

You may have the fastest Computer in the world. But, mine is faster!

About now you will probably be saying this guy is out of his mind. Not Really, I am just talking about a different type of computer. One that is completely organic.Your brain!

This training has only been available to the wealthy,… until now.

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